Texted a girl, got ignored. Should I text her again tomorrow?

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This happened earlier today. I (17M) like this girl (16F) so I texted her, trying to get to know her and the like. It went something like this:

Me: Hey

Her: hi

Me: you alright?

(No response)

Should I give it another go? I really like this girl and want it to go somewhere, which will be pretty difficult if she ignores me haha

For context it was around 9pm so maybe she thought I just wanted nudes or something?

I should also mention that I don’t think she knows what I look like? This convo was over Snapchat texts
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AzureCeleste
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It was on snapchat at nine, no clear idea of where the convo was going. Think that says it all.
I would've asked something more than 'you alright', she has no idea who you are or anything and considering she doesn't know what you look like she probably thought the convo was heading to nudes or whatever
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You messaged a random girl who doesn't know what you look like on snapchat with nothing interesting to say.

It's a write off before it's even started, really.
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don't text her again , you already look desperate enough
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Try and approach her in real life? Or try again and sound more interesting. I too would lose interest of all a guy said to me was ‘hey, you alright’. It DOES sound like you were gonna try and ask for something lol
Good luck! :-)
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Try and approach her in real life? Or try again and sound more interesting. I too would lose interest of all a guy said to me was ‘hey, you alright’. It DOES sound like you were gonna try and ask for something lol
Good luck! :-)
I would but I've left school now (she was a year younger than me)

I guess I'm just extremely bad at conversations
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(Original post by kikideekee)
don't text her again , you already look desperate enough
How so?

(Original post by Retired_Messiah)
You messaged a random girl who doesn't know what you look like on snapchat with nothing interesting to say.

It's a write off before it's even started, really.
What do you mean nothing interesting to say? You can't just go all in lol you need to start a conversion and get to know her. I guess it's a write off as you say, oh well then
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The bland "hey how are you" are the lines lads would've been texting her since she was about 12, so unless you'd captured her interest somewhat before actually texting her (as opposed to having her not know what your face looks like), then it's not really going to be something that catches interest. Just sort of signals desperation with no finesse.

In terms of what to say/ask instead in the early stages, you could try literally anything else and it'd at least come off as somewhat unique.
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its probably beacuse ur a nonce m8
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it doesn't sound like you have anything in common and if you don't even know her, how do you know you like her? first talk to her irl and then text her
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Don't bother tbh
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the answer is NO. have some self respect bruv. she blanked u ini.
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