Bengali/Islamic marriage

Why not? It's called the student room for a reason and it's ranged for ages like ours Reason why there is a section stated as 'Relationships'.

You're only 24 so you have plenty of time. You could try looking for a guy yourself and see where that leads.
Alternatively, with arranged marriage, it's not a case of you meet the person once and all of a sudden you get married. People have this misconception with arranged marriages that you meet the person and within 2 days you're already jetting off for your honeymoon. Arranged marriages can take months, if not years to consolidate.

Bro, when did you become a CA?

Officially since yesterday

Why not? It's called the student room for a reason and it's ranged for ages like ours Reason why there is a section stated as 'Relationships'.

'I honestly wouldn't worry about your own finances, if you're with a guy they're the one that's going to have to provide for you, so even if you don't like spending his money at the start of the marriage it will only be a few years until you empty his bank account and then some.'
I agree, I just hope they won't feel like I am a burden on them.

'Consider doing Tahajjud maybe?'
Will you be able to clarify what tahajjud is in detail, because I have always wondered if performing tahajjud is only the times when your in a real situation, not for something minor like this? Also, if you know how to perform tahajjud will you go through what you have to do please?

Hi I am Muslim aswell and I know how it feels I don’t want to get married because I am scared you have to live with other person your life and i am 19 only not yet i am sooo scared to get married either it’s arrange or not

AFAIK It only becomes a sin when you are in a position where you are able to get married but choose not to. If you can't get married because of the reasons you stated (such as not being financially stable, or can't find a suitable spouse) then I don't think it's a sin, as long as you're actively trying and do have the intention of marriage.



People assume that if it's an arranged marriage then you will know nothing about the person, but that's not true if done right. Whether you find someone of your own accord or have your parents find someone for you, there will be time for you to get to know the person they are so that you know what they are like.

Obviously you'd have someone with you at the time but it's not like you can't talk and get to know them. End of the day, they are the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with and raise children with insha'Allah.

The reason some parents are a bit more "urgent" with their daughters to get married is to prevent them from going down a sinful route, they feel like the longer they leave a girl unmarried the more likely she is to be tempted, so they would rather it done sooner than later because of the society we live in.

I honestly wouldn't worry about your own finances, if you're with a guy they're the one that's going to have to provide for you, so even if you don't like spending his money at the start of the marriage it will only be a few years until you empty his bank account and then some.

I know plenty of people that get married and while they're young, they live with the guys parents while they save up for a house in the future. It's probably the best way to go about things considering how house prices are now days, not to mention it allows for a lot more stability both financially and marriage wise.

Consider doing Tahajjud maybe?

The relationships section is normally referring to dating rather than marriage CVs as most people on here are teens or young adults not looking to get married.

You're only 24 so you have plenty of time. You could try looking for a guy yourself and see where that leads.
Alternatively, with arranged marriage, it's not a case of you meet the person once and all of a sudden you get married. People have this misconception with arranged marriages that you meet the person and within 2 days you're already jetting off for your honeymoon. Arranged marriages can take months, if not years to consolidate.

Hi I am Muslim aswell and I know how it feels I don’t want to get married because I am scared you have to live with other person your life and i am 19 only not yet i am sooo scared to get married either it’s arrange or not

I think they mean a question related to Islam considering the vast majority here are non-muslims and would have awful advice as far as it being Islamic related.

As far as Islamic relationship advice goes, this is probably one of the worst places purely because of the sheer number of trolls and non-believers.

Again, Ummah forum is a good place to go as it is actively moderated, and it's filled with people our ages too, especially when it comes to marriage related questions 😂



Lol there's no such thing as a real situation for which you should be praying to the Lord, Allah loves it when his creations worship him regardless of the situation.

TL;DR version - You wake up in the later stages of the night and do the salah then, that's pretty much the basics.

http://aboutislam.net/counseling/ask-about-islam/right-way-perform-tahajjud/

This article should help you a lot more for any questions you may have.

https://archive.islamonline.net/?p=645

This one is a lot more in depth.

Hope it helped.

and I will be having 7 wives.

One for each day.

The guy has to provide?

I suggest you join the 21st century

The guy has to provide?

I suggest you join the 21st century..

Sorry my bad, I got confused with Tahjjud and Istikaraah. I don't know how and why I got confused lol. Thank you anyways.

Yes, I agree with you. 24 is quiet young and I've only just finished and graduated, so it may even take time for me to search for a job. I am not financially stable, I'm unemployed so I need to consider that. I've always have said once I am financially stable I will be ready to get married, but I would like other peoples thoughts on this. Family members have said I don't need to be financially stable to get married, but I don't want to depend on my husbands income because I will always feel bad spending his money. I just want someone that has a loving and caring attitude, and ofcourse is on their deen. I don't even mind if they haven't done a degree. Is it wrong settling down with someone that is less than you, such as someone only working in a supermarket or doesn't have a high profile? Thank you