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im a 17 male and i have a sex problem and im so scared to what will happen if i have sex. i masturbate alot, usually 2-3 times per day, and i last about 1-3 minutes each time, i cant even imagine how embarrasing it would be with a girl when i last 1 minute, i last a minute using my hands, so with an actual vagina id be 30 seconds.... please help me im so embarrassed and dont know what to do when i have sex with someone!
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(Original post by Anonymous)
im a 17 male and i have a sex problem and im so scared to what will happen if i have sex. i masturbate alot, usually 2-3 times per day, and i last about 1-3 minutes each time, i cant even imagine how embarrasing it would be with a girl when i last 1 minute, i last a minute using my hands, so with an actual vagina id be 30 seconds.... please help me im so embarrassed and dont know what to do when i have sex with someone!
You put your right hand in,
You put your right hand out,
You put your right hand in,
And you shake it all about,
You do the hokey pokey
and you turn yourself around
That what it's all about

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carry on for me
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(Original post by TrojanHorse123)
You put your right hand in,
You put your right hand out,
You put your right hand in,
And you shake it all about,
You do the hokey pokey
and you turn yourself around
That what it's all about

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carry on for me
You just ruined this for me. I'll never see it the same way again.
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Take viagra I guess
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I thought they said guys would last longer the more they had sex? Like they will learn how to control not to *** so fast. Don’t think should be an issue for ya?
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I thought they said guys would last longer the more they had sex? Like they will learn how to control not to *** so fast. Don’t think should be an issue for ya?
i thought that too, but i seem to be lasting shorter the more i masturbate

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Take viagra I guess
is it common for guys to have a **** and they take viagra so they can last long in bed? wouldnt it mean sex isnt really that pleasurable since youre not horny/?
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(Original post by Anonymous)i thought that too, but i seem to be lasting shorter the more i masturbate



is it common for guys to have a **** and they take viagra so they can last long in bed? wouldnt it mean sex isnt really that pleasurable since youre not horny/?

Mate I don't really know - research it on google, how to last longer and when to use viagara
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Take viagra I guess
Firstly, that is not a good idea. Secondly, it is known that frequent masturbation can desensitise you slightly, you have no reason to be scared though. My advice would be to perhaps start to masturbate less, do it gradually because obviously your body will struggle if you suddenly go from multiple times a day to maybe every 2 days. You could be overstimulating yourself, moreover, don’t rely on porn or watch it too much as that too will desensitise you and ultimately sex will probably be disappointing if you rely on it.
Do not worry about how long you last! As a girl I can tell you that isn’t the main thing I think about. If you’re in a relationship and you have sex, it’s not so much about being porn like and mind blowing, it’s the connection with one another as well as the foreplay and snuggles, how long you last is not a big thing and if you’re with a nice girl you trust she’ll understand and it’s always something you can work on together sex can seem like a big deal but it’s entirely fun and natural. It’s not something to worry about at all, it’s something to enjoy. I hope I’ve helped a bit
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Firstly, that is not a good idea. Secondly, it is known that frequent masturbation can desensitise you slightly, you have no reason to be scared though. My advice would be to perhaps start to masturbate less, do it gradually because obviously your body will struggle if you suddenly go from multiple times a day to maybe every 2 days. You could be overstimulating yourself, moreover, don’t rely on porn or watch it too much as that too will desensitise you and ultimately sex will probably be disappointing if you rely on it.
Do not worry about how long you last! As a girl I can tell you that isn’t the main thing I think about. If you’re in a relationship and you have sex, it’s not so much about being porn like and mind blowing, it’s the connection with one another as well as the foreplay and snuggles, how long you last is not a big thing and if you’re with a nice girl you trust she’ll understand and it’s always something you can work on together sex can seem like a big deal but it’s entirely fun and natural. It’s not something to worry about at all, it’s something to enjoy. I hope I’ve helped a bit
thank you very much for your help i appreciate it, and atm i dont really watch porn, i actually *** before i even load the video most of the time. i just imagine stuff really
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2-3 times a day DURING NONUTNOVEMBER

you will forever be a virgin for this sin.
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(Original post by SoulfulTwist)
You just ruined this for me. I'll never see it the same way again.
You put your penis in,
You put your penis out,
You put your penis in,
And you shake it all about,
You do the hokey pokey
and you turn yourself around
That what it's all about
DUN DUN DUNNN
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2-3 times a day during nonutnovember

you will forever be a virgin for this sin.
why u cumming fast???
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(Original post by TrojanHorse123)
You put your penis in,
You put your penis out,
You put your penis in,
And you shake it all about,
You do the hokey pokey
and you turn yourself around
That what it's all about
DUN DUN DUNNN
Absolutely ruined
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If you come too soon, just say it's cos she's too hot for you. Then eat her out.
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why u cumming fast???
looool this made my day
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You need to go to the GP for your addiction to masturbation.
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