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How do I stop falling for people I don't know?
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Don’t know like how?
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As in don't know them personally don't know how else to put it lol
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As in don't know them personally don't know how else to put it lol
you mean like strangers on the street?
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you mean like strangers on the street?
More like celebrities and stuff.
I can't seem to stop fantasising, I'm not living in the real world half the time because my life is ****.
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More like celebrities and stuff.
I can't seem to stop fantasising, I'm not living in the real world half the time because my life is ****.
Do guys approach you?
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Do guys approach you?
No, never.
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No, never.
just got online and catfish a couple of guys. always works.x


jksnjfn joke but dw obsessions with celebs gradually fade overtime. it's a normal thing.
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just got online and catfish a couple of guys. always works.x


jksnjfn joke but dw obsessions with celebs gradually fade overtime. it's a normal thing.
Works how? Lol. In the end they'd find out I'm ugly.
I just want it to stop because it's fun in the beginning but then it gets unhealthy
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Works how? Lol. In the end they'd find out I'm ugly.
I just want it to stop because it's fun in the beginning but then it gets unhealthy
if a guy genuinely likes your personality but goes off you just because of how you look then he's a little boy who'll get what's coming to him later on in life. there's no such thing as ugly so don't call yourself that x
also, i actually don't know what to say about the situation because i myself have never been really obsessed with celebs and stuff like that. i appreciate them for whatever but not as far as obsessing over them. i'm not the best person to give advice and i'm generally pretty damn rubbish at giving advice when i can but maybe you could stop keeping up with the celeb? try and wean yourself off slowly or all in one go? i honestly don't really know what to say buuut i'm sure you'll get there!
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Okay well I can relate to this because I used to "fall in love" with celebrities all the time as a form of escapism. My logic was I can admire them and put them on a pedestal and not have to go through any negative emotions because they don't know I exist anyway.

It definitely isn't healthy to be so obsessed with someone you've never met, but it's not necessarily harmful either. I'd say just keep in mind that you don't know what they're like personally, you just see what they present to the world. They're human and they have lots of flaws too. The second I fell in love with someone who actually reciprocated my feelings, I didn't feel anything at all for those celebrities anymore.
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No, never.
Ah you’re just really quite lonely. Sometimes, I’m like that too. You’ll find someone one day and it’s ok to have fantasies of people you don’t know unless you tell them. I have fantasies of people I don’t even know exist, I just create an image of them in my mind and fall in love with them.
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Okay well I can relate to this because I used to "fall in love" with celebrities all the time as a form of escapism. My logic was I can admire them and put them on a pedestal and not have to go through any negative emotions because they don't know I exist anyway.

It definitely isn't healthy to be so obsessed with someone you've never met, but it's not necessarily harmful either. I'd say just keep in mind that you don't know what they're like personally, you just see what they present to the world. They're human and they have lots of flaws too. The second I fell in love with someone who actually reciprocated my feelings, I didn't feel anything at all for those celebrities anymore.
They say you can't know someone and fall in love with them unless you've met them personally but I just feel with all the information out there, from interviews, etc, I think you can genuinely get to know what they're like without ever meeting them, especially when their personal lives are so well known to everybody.
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if a guy genuinely likes your personality but goes off you just because of how you look then he's a little boy who'll get what's coming to him later on in life. there's no such thing as ugly so don't call yourself that x
also, i actually don't know what to say about the situation because i myself have never been really obsessed with celebs and stuff like that. i appreciate them for whatever but not as far as obsessing over them. i'm not the best person to give advice and i'm generally pretty damn rubbish at giving advice when i can but maybe you could stop keeping up with the celeb? try and wean yourself off slowly or all in one go? i honestly don't really know what to say buuut i'm sure you'll get there!
Lol so I should just deceive men and pose as Megan fox or someone?
Why are you here if you can't relate and by your own admission you give terrible advice?
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Ah you’re just really quite lonely. Sometimes, I’m like that too. You’ll find someone one day and it’s ok to have fantasies of people you don’t know unless you tell them. I have fantasies of people I don’t even know exist, I just create an image of them in my mind and fall in love with them.
Why do people say **** like this, it isn't true lol.
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Lol so I should just deceive men and pose as Megan fox or someone?
Why are you here if you can't relate and by your own admission you give terrible advice?
well the catfish thing was a joke which you seemed to not get. i just wanted to help so that's why i offered my (terrible) advice. but ok, sorry that i tried to help?
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Lol so I should just deceive men and pose as Megan fox or someone?
Why are you here if you can't relate and by your own admission you give terrible advice?
well the catfish thing was a joke which you seemed to not get. i just wanted to help so that's why i offered my (terrible) advice. but ok, sorry that i tried to help?
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Why do people say **** like this, it isn't true lol.
What isn’t true? You get attached quite easily
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What isn’t true? You get attached quite easily
I mean the 'you'll find someone' line that everyone uses.
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I mean the 'you'll find someone' line that everyone uses.
How old are you tho? Because people find their true love even at 40/50
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