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girls, do guys actually care about how you look down there?

I say girls because I think the answers will be more truthful based on experiences but guys can answer too I guess

basically do guys actually care about how your vag looks??? I mean appearance wise/colour wise/hair wise?

im extremely pale but my vag is darker in colour and it makes me sooooo self conscious. also whenever I shave I get ingrowns and razor bumps and I have scarring from old ingrowns too it just looks so ugly. I've never been with a guy so no ones ever seen me down there and I'm scared about what guys will think.

SO girls, in your experience do they actually care??
If you were my girlfirend I'd tell you that I'd be totally fine if you were to stop shaving down there. The aggro from the ingrowing hairs, raxor bumps are not worth it. Your comfort would be far more important to me than following some stupid fashion on how you should look.

The vagina is a functional thing. So are the penis and testicles in a man. I would never criticise, nor even think critically about the looks of any woman's private parts and would hope they'd return the same favour to me.

Forget about any photos you've seen in porno mags. Forget about you matching up to some Barbie Doll ideal of how you should be. Just rejoice in the miracle of life that you are and proceed with confidence that men will love your private bits.
Yes with regards to hair - I've dated several guys who've made a point about preferring when a woman is shaved/waxed.
Yeah, I get exactly where you're coming from. I've never shaved or anything bc im still a virgin and cant see anything happening any time soon. But it does worry me that when i get to that stage in my life that i wont know how much to shave/wax or what men will think about hair/colour/shape etc etc
I’m a virgin so don’t know from personal experience, but my friends are always complaining about their boyfriends asking them to shave/wax. I don’t think they care about the colour of it though, I’ve never heard them complain about that x

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