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Anonymous #1
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I've been quiet for so long and have never met anyone as quiet as me. When I was at school there was another quiet girl but since I left school it's only been me. There were no other quiet girls at college and now at uni there are none. Every girl is just so confident. I speak a lot more than I use to but I could never be like other girls and wouldn't want to be. Am I the only one?

I've never had a boyfriend and I think it is because I am quiet. Guys find confidence attractive over quite and mysterious like me I suppose but I'd like a boyfriend. It just seems unlikely to ever happen. Guys seems interested in me but they never make a move.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
... Guys find confidence attractive over quite and mysterious like me...
Not all guys!

I take it you are young. You will attract attention one day as a girl.

Don't be desperate, someone will appreciate you for being you.

:goodluck:
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Sooty1947
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No. There is more quiet girls.
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Anonymous #2
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Hi!
I consider myself to be a quiet girl 100%, and I know how lonely it can feel when everyone else wants to go out partying and socialise all the time. Believe me- there are other people like you! Some boys find confidndecd attractive, but a lot of guys actually find quiet girls very sweet
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quiet girls are wayyy cuter than 'confident girls' IMO.

also you're the only one; I myself is quiet and girls tend to find confident guys attractive lmao.

dw as ecolier said you'll attract attention someday
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(Original post by Sooty1947)
I bet you are very sexy and very warm in bed
OP avoid guys like this please.
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You can be quiet and still have a personality and be interesting. Those are the things that are going to engage a man and make him want to date you. Being too 'mysterious' is going to come across as cold/disinterested and prevent guys from getting to know you better.
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Hi!
I consider myself to be a quiet girl 100%, and I know how lonely it can feel when everyone else wants to go out partying and socialise all the time. Believe me- there are other people like you! Some boys find confidndecd attractive, but a lot of guys actually find quiet girls very sweet
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Anonymous #3
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I’m very quiet myself.. but also very awkward just can’t help it ahaha.. a few boys have approached me before and have met but I’m just so awkward and don’t think I was really ready to have a relationship but now I want one but don’t really go out to meet anyone.
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I’m very quiet myself.. but also very awkward just can’t help it ahaha.. a few boys have approached me before and have met but I’m just so awkward and don’t think I was really ready to have a relationship but now I want one but don’t really go out to meet anyone.
At least you've been approached. Guys have been interested in me but have never approached me. There are a few now who seem interested, they're cute too. If only one would approach me. I could never make the first move.
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Don't worry, there are a lot of quiet girls in the world.
Plenty of great guys want to date quieter girls, sadly so do jerks and demanding men with control issues.
Also f*** boys looking for casual sex.

I'm a quiet girl too and I've been in two relationships.
The main thing is always to appear friendly and sociable.
Some people can misconstrue reserve for being snobbish or cold.
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Anonymous #3
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(Original post by Anonymous)
At least you've been approached. Guys have been interested in me but have never approached me. There are a few now who seem interested, they're cute too. If only one would approach me. I could never make the first move.
Well there’s defiantly nothing wrong with being quiet, and you’re still young so have plenty of time and a lot of other people are in similar situations not just you so don’t worry
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Anonymous #4
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I'm a male in my early 20's I definitely like quieter girls, to be honest I'm similar to you. I have social anxiety and really I'm an extrovert but am really pinned down, I too find it hard.
I think it seems to me that girls love confidence in men, and I'm lower on that right now so I struggle to get anywhere with girls.
But I know a lot of guys that date quieter girls, I for one would love to be with that type.

As a guy I would say if someone approaches you need to try and let them in, and if they don't like your for being quiet then move on.
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Hi. If I knew you I would approach you.
(Original post by Anonymous)
At least you've been approached. Guys have been interested in me but have never approached me. There are a few now who seem interested, they're cute too. If only one would approach me. I could never make the first move.
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