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There was this guy i met in paris, through a facebook group . we became close and got intimate but i stopped him from having sex. He was angry and we had a little fight, but later he agreed. I was in love with him But after physically using me he started telling me that he doesnt want to be loyal and he never gets serious with any girl . He has had sex with 15 girls in the past but was never serious with any girl . I got to know that he was just a flirt and used me. But i had lots of feelings for him and due to that i just couldnt fall in love with anyone else. I got another boyfriend and he was really good to me and stuff but i never developed feelings for him so i called off the relationship.

now this first guy and i continued to be friends and he used to call me to his house sometimes to meet him. We just used to cuddle and hug and kiss even though i wasnt his girlfriend. I used to visit him because i used to like him even though he was an idiot. Then later he started asking me if any of my friends were single or not and i told him that my room mate was single and i will help in fixing a date with her. Having said that when he did ask me to fix a date with her i said later and i dont know why i just got pissed and told him he was an womaniser and stuff. We had a heated argument and He blocked me on facebook.

A week later i found a job and i texted him the details of the job and when to write an exam for it and stuff because i knew that he was also looking for "another" job. After that i dont know what happened he called and was really warm with me and asked me if i wanted to be his girlfriend? I was shockd at his behavior but i Refused. We started meeting again and he keeps telling me that he would like to come to my room. i tell him im not alone but he says he wants to come to my room and talk to me.. I have already told him ill make him meet my room mate in january. when i tell him that he says that he is not interested to meet my room mate, but he just wants to come to my room when she is there. I understand that he is interested in meeting my roommate and not me . I dont know why but i get a strange unpleasant feeling in my stomach when he behaves like this as if i have lost something. I dont want a relationship with him and when he shows interest in meeting my roomate i just dont feel good!!!!!

what should i do??? Should i completely cut him out of my life forever like never attending his calls etc to avoid such unpleasant feelings ? or should i do something else. PLEASE guide , i just dont understand. I will greatly value your answers . Thank you.
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(Original post by sanny28)
There was this guy i met in paris, through a facebook group . we became close and got intimate but i stopped him from having sex. He was angry and we had a little fight, but later he agreed. I was in love with him But after physically using me he started telling me that he doesnt want to be loyal and he never gets serious with any girl . He has had sex with 15 girls in the past but was never serious with any girl . I got to know that he was just a flirt and used me. But i had lots of feelings for him and due to that i just couldnt fall in love with anyone else. I got another boyfriend and he was really good to me and stuff but i never developed feelings for him so i called off the relationship.

now this first guy and i continued to be friends and he used to call me to his house sometimes to meet him. We just used to cuddle and hug and kiss even though i wasnt his girlfriend. I used to visit him because i used to like him even though he was an idiot. Then later he started asking me if any of my friends were single or not and i told him that my room mate was single and i will help in fixing a date with her. Having said that when he did ask me to fix a date with her i said later and i dont know why i just got pissed and told him he was an womaniser and stuff. We had a heated argument and He blocked me on facebook.

A week later i found a job and i texted him the details of the job and when to write an exam for it and stuff because i knew that he was also looking for "another" job. After that i dont know what happened he called and was really warm with me and asked me if i wanted to be his girlfriend? I was shockd at his behavior but i Refused. We started meeting again and he keeps telling me that he would like to come to my room. i tell him im not alone but he says he wants to come to my room and talk to me.. I have already told him ill make him meet my room mate in january. when i tell him that he says that he is not interested to meet my room mate, but he just wants to come to my room when she is there. I understand that he is interested in meeting my roommate and not me . I dont know why but i get a strange unpleasant feeling in my stomach when he behaves like this as if i have lost something. I dont want a relationship with him and when he shows interest in meeting my roomate i just dont feel good!!!!!

what should i do??? Should i completely cut him out of my life forever like never attending his calls etc to avoid such unpleasant feelings ? or should i do something else. PLEASE guide , i just dont understand. I will greatly value your answers . Thank you.
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