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We have a social dilemma.We need to split our group of 8 'mates' into 2 houses of 4. 7 of us get on really well and would happily live together in any combination. However, there is one guy who we simply can't live with, for a multitude of reasons. It's nothing personal but he's too intense, dirty and annoying. Despite this, we don't feel as though we could ditch him as he is still part of our group. The thing is we need to decide for the sake of our housing next year. Any help or advice on similar situations would be much appreciate as well as any other general advice regarding this.
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This is going to be like selecting a new Pope.

Just stay out of any real decision making and make sure at all costs you're in the 4 that doesn't have him in it. Only get involved if it looks like you might get landed with him - then threaten to drop the truth bomb as your last resort.
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In my humble opinion, a name generator would be the best bet, or just man up and tell him to **** off
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I would back channel with two others and get a plan for a 3-person house - that way if you get stuck with the ****, you can just say "no, we're out and going as a 3" and that's your escape route.
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Either he's your boy or he isn't. If you're boys, you'll tell him to calm down and that he needs a wash and that you'll live with him anyway.

If you're not boys, you'll tell him none of this and won't live with him next year.

Criticism and loyalty are beautiful things.
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(Original post by Supersaps)
Either he's your boy or he isn't. If you're boys, you'll tell him to calm down and that he needs a wash and that you'll live with him anyway.

If you're not boys, you'll tell him none of this and won't live with him next year.

Criticism and loyalty are beautiful things.
Narrator : He wasn't their boy.
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have a discussion with him about his habits?
He doesn't react well to being challeneged about the way he behaves. He either gets agressive or sullen about it so doesn't ever respond to the criticism well
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Grow up
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It would be a bit mean to just ditch him.

The decent thing would be to draw straws to sort out who lives in which houses next year. And explain to him that he needs to be cleaner in his habits in Year 2 or people might not want to live with him in Year 3 (he probably can't help being intense so not worth mentioning that). If he doesn't improve in Year 2, at least he has been given fair warning about the consequences of not making any effort to change, and so you can go your separate ways with a clean conscience.
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