My crush told my ex to date me Watch

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My crush told my ex to date me. We now broke up, and I just found out about this.

How do I react to this? I feel angry at my crush and 'used' by both these guys. Do I have grounds to be upset or is this just a normal conversation between two guys?

I can't help but think my crush was trying to get rid of me so to speak and told my ex to date me.
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(Original post by Nightingale)
My crush told my ex to date me. We now broke up, and I just found out about this.

How do I react to this? I feel angry at my crush and 'used' by both these guys. Do I have grounds to be upset or is this just a normal conversation between two guys?

I can't help but think my crush was trying to get rid of me so to speak and told my ex to date me.
I don't see how the other guy was in the wrong for dating you, and to be honest don't think your crush was being malicious either.
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As a guy, I see this as someone just helping out his mate. I doubt your crush has interest in you but does think you're girlfriend material so he set you up with his friend.

Nobody used you and shouldn't be angry at them
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(Original post by Nightingale)
My crush told my ex to date me. We now broke up, and I just found out about this.

How do I react to this? I feel angry at my crush and 'used' by both these guys. Do I have grounds to be upset or is this just a normal conversation between two guys?

I can't help but think my crush was trying to get rid of me so to speak and told my ex to date me.
Nothing wrong with what your 'crush' did and things not working out between you and your ex is a totally separate issue.

Forget it. And, just move on.
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It's likely he knew that your ex liked you and just encouraged him to go for it. That's called being a good friend. :dontknow:

No one has "used" you. You ultimately made the decision to date your ex.
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