he's my bestfriend and in the same friendship group as me. We had a great connection from the start and eventually there was sexual tension and we ended up doing a fwb kind of deal. we both agreed not catch feelings and seperate our friendship from sex because we don't want to lose each other.
unfortunately.. I have caught feelings and idk what to do. I know he doesnt feel the same way and its hurting me so bad. I still go out with other guys but it doesnt feel the same. He tells me about other girls he's interested in which makes me kind of jealous even tho I try not to be. I had a complete melt down last night at a party when I was drunk and called him to ask if he could come mine and when he said no I burst into tears and cried for an hour.
wtf should I do?
Just enjoy the sex and find another outlet that doesn't involve him for expressing your feelings.
A pet, cuddly toys or volunteering.
No strings arrangements only provide sex.
This my friends is why NSA sex doesn't work. Someone is doomed to catch feelings.
The best thing to do is be honest with him. Never mind how humiliating it is. If you don't you'll just end up hurting yourself more and leading him on.
If you need sex that bad, find a new **** buddy, because it's not right to carry on like you are.