So I’ve been seeing this guy whose 32 years old (10 years age gap between us) and he’s been really lovely and everything.
However, his female friend (whose 26 years old) has tried to ruin things between me and him by fabricating stories about me that’s not true. I used to be cool with the girl until I realised that she never had my best interest at heart so I cut ties with her.
It seems to me that this guy is a follower and always does and go places according to what his female friend wants. Funnily enough, this girl has a WHOLE BOYFRIEND!
One time, I called the guy and she picked up saying “He’s busy” so I hung up straight away. It’s weird because that’s not even her boyfriend.
So I’ve been contemplating on what to do next. Whether I should continue seeing him or just drop everything with him. He’s 10 years older than me so even if we did continue and decided to start a family in a few years, he’ll be getting older and older so he may not be able to do the things that he once used to do when he was younger.
I just need advice about this situation as I don’t really have many people to talk to.