I’m not lesbian but i get turned on by girls

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(Original post by Lauren2009...)
I’m in a happy relationship with a man, he lives with me I have 3 kids and he has two kids which stay 3 times a week. I am 3 months pregnant we wanted a baby together but the past few weeks I keep getting turned on by naked pictures of lesbians I don’t think I find them attractive but I do get a sexual feeling what does this mean? I love my partner so much
Perhaps you are bisexual. And so what? There is no need to feel guilty. You have not cheated on anyone.
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Liking someone of the same sex or considering them attractive does not make you lesbian, bisexual or some other label, if you only ever have or want to have intimacy including sex with the opposite sex.
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This will confuse a hell alot of people. Okay so here it goes,
I am straight. Like i love boys, obsessed with them and can fall in love so quickly with them. I see myself getting married to a boy, having kids with him ect. However much recently I’ve been getting attraction to girl but not in a romantic way at all... just sexually. I find them to be so hot and when ever i watch lesbian porn it turns me on alot!! Don’t get me wrong i think boys are so hot and i would definitely not turn them down but if i had to choose between a one night stand with a boy and one night stand with a girl i would choose the girl. I find myself fantasising about girls and i want to sleep with a girl (but I can’t because i am a restricted asian girl lol) anyways i enjoy thinking about girls in a sexual way but if i think about getting into a relationship with one I don’t really find it to be something i want. I used to have a lesbian best friend and i used to think alot about sleeping with her but never thought of being in a relationship with her... Is this a wrong feeling? What am i feeling? Am i even straight? I just need help.
Ps. I read something about being hetroromantic homosexual... is that an actual thing or is it fake? What do i tell people? Ugh I’m so confused! Helppp meee pleaseee!!
You are probably bisexual! I am too, its perfectly lovely. Attraction can differ between genders too. It sounds like your attraction to women is sexual so you would be bisexual but not romantic so youd be heteromantic. You don't need to use these labels its just useful to know! Personally, I find it difficult to imagine sex with women but I love them and want relationships with them so I'm the opposite of you!
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I’m bisexual myself and to me it sounds like u are bi too. If you question your sexuality often chances are your bi.
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(Original post by Arianarose03)
This will confuse a hell alot of people. Okay so here it goes,
I am straight. Like i love boys, obsessed with them and can fall in love so quickly with them. I see myself getting married to a boy, having kids with him ect. However much recently I’ve been getting attraction to girl but not in a romantic way at all... just sexually. I find them to be so hot and when ever i watch lesbian porn it turns me on alot!! Don’t get me wrong i think boys are so hot and i would definitely not turn them down but if i had to choose between a one night stand with a boy and one night stand with a girl i would choose the girl. I find myself fantasising about girls and i want to sleep with a girl (but I can’t because i am a restricted asian girl lol) anyways i enjoy thinking about girls in a sexual way but if i think about getting into a relationship with one I don’t really find it to be something i want. I used to have a lesbian best friend and i used to think alot about sleeping with her but never thought of being in a relationship with her... Is this a wrong feeling? What am i feeling? Am i even straight? I just need help.
Ps. I read something about being hetroromantic homosexual... is that an actual thing or is it fake? What do i tell people? Ugh I’m so confused! Helppp meee pleaseee!!
Sounds like your bi
If you find yourself sexually attracted to both genders and not just one you are most definitely bisexual.
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I think that’s more about what you expect from yourself rather than what you actually want but I could be a million miles wrong. I think you may be bi but have an expectation for yourself to be in a relationship with a male. I say try a few girls before you put all your eggs in one basket so to speak. Then see how you feel. If you’re still confused or have more questions, come back here and I’m sure eventually you will find yourself x
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I will say no because people already know that you're bi and you don't necessarily need to be in a relationship with both genders to prove it. The most important thing about having in bisexuality is attraction to both genders. If you're attracted to only one gender, that means that you're not really bi. Just heterosexual.😯
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Same
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