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Hello my name is Aimee to start off. I’m not sexually active anymore as I’ve split up from my partner. I wanna know some things how do you know you have a tight vagina? My ex always used to say it was but I don’t know why but I have doubts that it’s loose so how would I know if it is? Also I don’t know if I’ve actually had an orgasm my ex never made me *** by fingering or licking I think at one time he said I cummed loads on his fingers but I didn’t feel like I had an orgasm. Also when his penis is in little bits of white go on his penis I don’t know if that’s me that’s due to me cumming or not. Also when he does *** in my vagina his **** goes soft straight after is this because of me? Reason why I’m asking these sex questions as well is because I’ve started dated someone and he may wanna take the next step and I’m nervous.
If you have had an orgasm you'd know. Do you masturbate? If not you need to, to find out what feels good. A small vibrator can help.

Don't worry about tightness. It is what it is. People have babies and it returns to normal. Don't worry about that.

The white is a mixture of discharge (normal) and vaginal lubricant you produce when turned on. It's normal.

Every bloke is different after orgasm, some can keep going some go soft. Not your fault or doing.

You are over-thinking and that's bad. Concentrate now on what gets you off then you can show the new guy.

(use protection)
I dont think I’ve had an orgasm then is that bad? I can’t seem to reach one. Is there ways I can try have one.
Of course it's not a bad thing in itself. I understand it's common in a lot of younger women. I have friends who were in their 30's before they managed it.

I'm a bloke so maybe not the best to be giving specific advice but masturbation and learning your own body is key. Some women use porn. Generally concentrate on your clitoris. Vibrators can help (little bullet ones are fine, not something big and intimidating). You can get ones that suck and are supposed to be amazing......

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