how to forget my old bestfriendWatch
Basically I (female) was friends and best friends with this guy from the age of about 8/9 to age 16 for most of secondary school we were especially close but towards the end he started to message me way less and the friendship became really one sided. eventually I messaged him asking what was going on and he just made excuses saying he was getting lots of messages like mine from friends and that he wanted to be friends but didn't want to message or something. from that point we didn't speak at all (this was September 2017) he randomly pops up to me on snap, maybe once every three months but doesn't hold a conversation, in fact the past two times once I replied he just aired my reply, I messaged him once and he straight up aired it?
I tried to get the friendship back a few times but nothinf much came of it.
I go through phases of missing him but it's always there, I think of him pretty much every day, I still have him on Snapchat and on Instagram, should I unfollow him? I feel like I should but I still want to know what he's up to and if he's okay from time to time?
Basically my question is? What should I do? And how should I forget about him?
If you want to forget him, basically remove everything that reminds you of him; physically and mentally. Yes, you should unfollow him, and basically get new friends and new hobbies so you have no time to think of him. You'll then forget him as time goes by.... Good luck, worked for me.
Yeah you're right I think thats for the best, I'm just finding it quite hard to let go, because he seemed ready to I guess 'out grow me' but I wasn't and I'm still not. Idk maybe I'll do it for new years! Thanks for the advice
I guess I just want to know why things went weird and get some closure I guess, but this might just be me making an excuse to talk to him? I can't tell, what do you guys think?
Look you’ll basically actually put yourself in such a depressive state and nothing comes easy in this life you’ve spent half your life with him so spend the rest there’s always gonna be ups and downs along the way it’s all about overcoming them
Nothing is an accident God have you a sign which you need to understand it’s unfair on both of you I know how you feel but you don’t know how your male best friend feels he may have all those friend because he’s not good with showing his emotions and doesn’t want to seem weak or soft