Why do guys pull FIT girls but date average ones???Watch
they're ungrateful, moody, selfish and think they deserve the world just because they have looks. thats why they mainly date ugly betas because betas are the only ones willing to bend over backwards for them and give them everything they demand
What I personally think is this. When on a night-out you're drunk, and more confident. So guys will try to go for your hot friend. Because when sober they might be intimidated and even think "Wow, she is out of my league" or "She probably has a boyfriend". Unfortunately most good-looking girls are assumed to have **** personalities too, so that might factor in too.
If your friend wants a chance to date, maybe she should try to approach guys (in a friendly manner, not in a very flirty manner -> they might assume she is a slut)
However, it is fair to say that not every man that she meets either good bad or indifferent looking is going to be suitable and compatible for her and vice versa.
When I was 16, my 2nd oldest brother gave me this bit of advice "Go for the plainer looking women... They're easier."
It took me a while to work out that this was terrible advice and I have ignored it ever since. My philosophy now is to go for women that meet my minimum standards, and also to go for women for whom I meet their minimum standards.
There is no real correlation between how beautiful someone is on the outside and how beautiful someone is on the inside. There is also no correlation between how 2 people look and how compatible they are with each other as long term romantic partners.
My 2nd oldest brother married a woman that is unattractive on the outside and unattractive on the inside. It's his life. His decision. He was always considered the most physically attractive and charismatic member of our family. He is not a role model when it comes to romatic partner selection.
my friend is gorgeous and she’s pulled some really hot guys on nights out because well obviously they’re attracted to her as she’s hot, who wouldn’t be. But they don’t try and take things any further and then they end up dating average looking girls, when they could’ve gotten to know my friend, why is this?