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Constant FOMO

Had depression for years, isolated myself. Now want to go out and be a teenager and basically live my life but I’m struggling. Anytime anything’s happening (which is rare) I’m busy otherwise, I just don’t see any opportunities and I don’t want to be the one to always come up with plans coz I don’t want to look desperate.

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here is some advice i wish i knew when ur age. focus on self improvement work on becoming a better version of urself. go get a gym mebership (or go jogging, ride bikes whatever, or body weight excersises) go get bigger and stronger and fitter. learn as much as u can about money, business, social skills, pyshology, how to talk to women, books all men should read type books.just read anything. listen to podcasts. find some good yt folk out there role models alpha m, elliot hulse, infinite waters etc. learn skills. go volunteer. work out what the fuk u want to do with ur life. buy new clothes and get a decent haircut. get on nofap. just dont sit in ur room all day playing video games and jerking off. u shouldnt be fomo socialising u should be fomo on working on yourself. one tiny diffrence over period of years have massive changes. for me i love reading but i didnt read a single book for fun from age 14 to 19. i love hitting the gym but i didnt get a membership and working out properly until 22. i didnt quit porn until aged 20. and so much more than that. not doing that years before i missed out on not some bs party with ppl i dont like