You'll find the answer in your own post lol
After two failed marriages I slept around I doubled my numbers with in about 6 months after we separated. I thought that all I was going to do was be a man whore. Sure enough after awhile I did find a new gf. All I did was not try, i let the women come to me. Easier said then done but next time a guy wants to sleep with you make them work for it haha.
Can I make a suggestion? You're in your early twenties. Go live your life. Do something. Be someone. Set yourself some goals. Get out there and hit the ball, paint, go to grad school, get a great job, jump out of an airplane, learn everything about a subject you want to know about, start competing, fill out an application for something you can't possibl get, etc. Reach. Achieve. Learn. Live. You have plenty of time to fall in love. Perhaps in being who you really are you'll be closer to the kinds of guys you really want to be with.
My first ex was a virgin, was with her for 6 years (from 13 to 19)
My second ex was a virgin, was with her for 8 years (from 19 to 27)
My current girlfriend wasn't, but only had one guy before Me, and she makes up for it in other ways. (from last year summer-now)
So I've only been with 3 people (I don't cheat) but have always been very happy and in loving, long, stable relationships. Until the end obviously.
I had to dump the first because she kissed a guy while out drunk. Had to dump the second because she started regurgitating brainwashed NPC soundbites. If not for those I would have seriously stayed with them forever and been very happy.
Having a girl that's 'yours' and that you can respect and be proud of and not ashamed to be seen with makes all the difference.
Last edited by TommyDH; 4 weeks ago
i would start hanging out with different people that your friends hang out with maybe you have a chance there i don't know but thats a idea