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Just wondering.

When you first lost your virginity, how long did it hurt for afterwards.
E.g.: First time, Second, Third etc...

When did it stop hurting at the beggining, because i've had sex twice now and both times it really hurt at the beggining.

Friends have told me that it hurt them 3, 4, 5 even 6 times after the first time.

What about you?

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Reply 1
It hurt me until we'd done it 50 odd times, not to scare anyone, I'm not sure that's too common lol.
Reply 2
It hurt me for 27 years... lol just kidding
It didn't hurt me at all. Not even the first time.
Reply 4
seriously? it hurt for that long on some people?!?! it stopped hurting after my first go . . . .
Reply 5
no, hadnt really done any foreplay before hand . .. . but its different for everyone, if you think thats the reason then try more foreplay and stuff and see if it works.
Reply 6
about 10 times for me i'd say. And even now sometimes when it first 'goes in' it can hurt. It's all bearable and worth it though.
Depends, was a bit sore the first few times then was alright- but if it had been a while since doing it, it hurt again then and that happened for a good while. Never as much as the first time, and not even that bad really, just a bit ouch for the first few thrusts :wink:
Reply 8
louisedotcom: :ditto:

2nd time is definitely the worst though. Ouchies.
How old are you all???
first time i had it it didn't hurt but i bled a bit and was sore later....next time we didn't get that far and he was just fingering me and it was awful I bled loads....slightly concerned by this fact bit worried now advice anyone???
im a virgin and im scared now... uve totally put me off!
Reply 12
i was 15 when i first did it. . . hardly even hurt and its never hurt since
Reply 13
Only the first time, and only for the first few minutes too.
Reply 14
15? Jeez.
Reply 15
first time didn't hurt...neither did any of the other times.

lucky me.
Reply 16
it hurt for quite a few times afterwards. It shouldn't put you off though it's not that bad.
Reply 17
OggYx
15? Jeez.



what? whats so oh jeez about that? how old was everyone else then?
Didn't hurt me at all. Was a little sore the morning after the first time but not in a "dear lord I'm falling apart way", just in a "ouch. hmm. oh well" sort of way :biggrin:
Anonymous
im a virgin and im scared now... uve totally put me off!


Please don't be put off by anyof this. It is different for everyone. I know one girl who never had any pain, and another who had pain every time she had sex with her first partner, then with her second she had no pain. It might depend on how relaxed you are with it. If you are nervous or don't particularly want it it is bound to hurt more