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(Original post by Bang Outta Order)
a bit pointless since he doesnt even care about you to begin with but try it and see if it makes you at least kinda satisfied. or leave him mental texts.
He said he did care blablabla just busy blabla puke. Mental text?
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I really wanna block this guy i was seeing but i feel like its immature. He ghosted me and would manipulate me and make me feel special and then gone again and come back again. Always like that. And i found out he lied to me about so many things. I want to block him but i feel like it is sooooo immature what should i do?
It's not immature to want someone out of mind if they have been treating you bad. Block him, move on, life is to short to put up with anyone's manipulating behaviour.
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Seems pointless blocking someone if theyre already not talking to you
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He said he did care blablabla just busy blabla puke. Mental text?
mental means crazy, babsy...and babsy is how my town says babe.
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Seems pointless blocking someone if theyre already not talking to you
But you are enballing them to still hold the power, blocking them removes that, removes all control they have over the situation and removes the problem.
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If you're blocking them purely because they're ghosting you, then yes that's immature. They are not obligated to be in contact with you and you are not entitled to responses from them. Blocking someone just because they've cut contact, or not replied is childish.

Blocking them because you don't want them in your life is a different matter. If someone has lied to you, hurt you, etc. then blocking them is more justified. That said, blocking people is a modern solution to an old problem. Normally, when you don't want to have contact with someone you just ignore them. You don't have to go out of your way to block them. If they contact you again, tell them you don't want them to message you any more. Blocking is really just a way to get around the problem rather than deal with it.
But it's not just anyone, it's somebody she was going out with, and even living with. I can see how hurtful it would be for them to behave like that, and while they might not have an obligation to be in touch with her, I also think it's immature and rude to act in that way.

OP: I don't know if you do this, but I know that if there's somebody who's hurt me, I'm very guilty of checking their social media, online status, snap scores.. to see if they're online, and if they are just ignoring me. If I find out that that's the case, it's hurtful, so sometimes it is easier to block them on everything, as then you can't torture yourself. I don't know whether it's immature to block someone or not, but I do think that looking after yourself is mature, and that's absolutely what you need to do here.
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(Original post by iceyyyy)
I really wanna block this guy i was seeing but i feel like its immature. He ghosted me and would manipulate me and make me feel special and then gone again and come back again. Always like that. And i found out he lied to me about so many things. I want to block him but i feel like it is sooooo immature what should i do?
I remember your thread from before. Just block him. That way you can stop thining about him - he's not a good thing in your life.
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But it's not just anyone, it's somebody she was going out with, and even living with. I can see how hurtful it would be for them to behave like that, and while they might not have an obligation to be in touch with her, I also think it's immature and rude to act in that way.
The thread itself and the OP ask two seperate questions. I'm trying to answer based on the title (which only ask about ghosting) and based on the additional information. If we changed the thread title to "Is it immature to block someone who I dated and hurt me", there'd be no debate on the issue. But for some reason the OP chose to focus on ghosting in the title. Ergo my original point: If you block someone purely because they don't read your messages or reply, that's immature. The additional details make it clear that it's not a simple matter of ghosting, which I address in the second point.

I'm not disagreeing, I just found it odd that someone would focus on the ghosting as their justification rather than the actual bad stuff that happened.
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(Original post by xoxAngel_Kxox)
But it's not just anyone, it's somebody she was going out with, and even living with. I can see how hurtful it would be for them to behave like that, and while they might not have an obligation to be in touch with her, I also think it's immature and rude to act in that way.

OP: I don't know if you do this, but I know that if there's somebody who's hurt me, I'm very guilty of checking their social media, online status, snap scores.. to see if they're online, and if they are just ignoring me. If I find out that that's the case, it's hurtful, so sometimes it is easier to block them on everything, as then you can't torture yourself. I don't know whether it's immature to block someone or not, but I do think that looking after yourself is mature, and that's absolutely what you need to do here.
Hey. Yeah its hurtful. I tend to check eveything usually and he would show up everywhere just not my text. He didnt even open my snapchat. But sometimes he would come back with a really sweet text and call me and when i give a call back he didnt pick up. Sometimes i wonder what do i do wrong or maybe if i wasnt enough. But yeah probably its not the case. Anyway, thankyou for your advice I appreciate it! X
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I really wanna block this guy i was seeing but i feel like its immature. He ghosted me and would manipulate me and make me feel special and then gone again and come back again. Always like that. And i found out he lied to me about so many things. I want to block him but i feel like it is sooooo immature what should i do?
sis block his a** if you think he's being a prink for ghosting you on purpose :*
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(Original post by Acsel)
The thread itself and the OP ask two seperate questions. I'm trying to answer based on the title (which only ask about ghosting) and based on the additional information. If we changed the thread title to "Is it immature to block someone who I dated and hurt me", there'd be no debate on the issue. But for some reason the OP chose to focus on ghosting in the title. Ergo my original point: If you block someone purely because they don't read your messages or reply, that's immature. The additional details make it clear that it's not a simple matter of ghosting, which I address in the second point.

I'm not disagreeing, I just found it odd that someone would focus on the ghosting as their justification rather than the actual bad stuff that happened.
I have made another thread abt the bad stuff thats happening. Now, the thing that im focusing is, he ghosted me and we dont see each other again. And its quite hard. Leave me wondering what do i do wrong
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I really wanna block this guy i was seeing but i feel like its immature. He ghosted me and would manipulate me and make me feel special and then gone again and come back again. Always like that. And i found out he lied to me about so many things. I want to block him but i feel like it is sooooo immature what should i do?
No. He's the immature one for ghosting you instead of being upfront and honest. Blocking him sounds like the best course of action and actually the mature and responsible thing to do.
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sis block his a** if you think he's being a prink for ghosting you on purpose :*
Thankyou sis xo
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I have made another thread abt the bad stuff thats happening. Now, the thing that im focusing is, he ghosted me and we dont see each other again. And its quite hard. Leave me wondering what do i do wrong
At this point I'm just going to say the same thing I said before. Blocking people because they're not in contact or don't reply to messages is petty. Blocking people because they're a problem is not
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I have blocked him guys. Never felt so relieved. Thankyou all for the advice 🖤🖤🖤
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I have never blocked someone before but everybody I spoke to said i should block him and that is the right thing to do. So now im confused.... should i speak to him about it or just ignore or block.... its confusing and i dont want him to think that im just one immature ass *****
You shouldn't care what he thinks of you. If he's been an idiot he doesn't deserve to be able to contact you. Just block him. I had a similar issue with my ex and he took the mick out of me blocking him and unblocking him, I would say if you're going to block him then commit to it. Make sure you won't unblock him first
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I really wanna block this guy i was seeing but i feel like its immature. He ghosted me and would manipulate me and make me feel special and then gone again and come back again. Always like that. And i found out he lied to me about so many things. I want to block him but i feel like it is sooooo immature what should i do?
It is in fact, based on what you experienced, a great idea to block him. He has no respect for you. Avoid guys who try to manipulate you or do that going missing trick.
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