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So, basically, there is this guy at my school and everyone hates him. Including me- but I don't show it as others do.I have been raised to be nice to everyone and that is what I was doing.but...Now the guy likes me and I can't get rid of him. What do I do???
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When you say he likes you, in which way does he like you?
As a friend? More than friends?
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Why does everyone hate him? Maybe you can help him change and use your position as a force for good.
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can't you be friend with him and just say that it can't be anything else just keep saying just let be friends
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When you say he likes you, in which way does he like you?
As a friend? More than friends?
yes, more than friends
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Why does everyone hate him? Maybe you can help him change and use your position as a force for good.
I actually don't know why everyone hates him. I think it's because once you get to be nice to him, he does something that makes you hate him again.
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can't you be friend with him and just say that it can't be anything else just keep saying just let be friends
I don't want to make him feel friend zoned or rejected.
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I don't want to make him feel friend zoned or rejected.
but just say to him that u don't want to go further but say u still want to hang out?
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I don't want to make him feel friend zoned or rejected.
Even so, you shouldn't feel bad for feeling the way you do. If you don't want anything or aren't interested, you don't have to be and you don't have to make it seem like you are just to spare his feelings. If you do, he might think you're leading him on, and that's not good at all.
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Even so, you shouldn't feel bad for feeling the way you do. If you don't want anything or aren't interested, you don't have to be and you don't have to make it seem like you are just to spare his feelings. If you do, he might think you're leading him on, and that's not good at all.
that's so true. I might do that actually.
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but just say to him that u don't want to go further but say u still want to hang out?
ok. Thank you!
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Stay nice! This generation needs more nice people! Everybody nowadays is so passive, selfish, rude and ignorant. It's unattractive.
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(Original post by MnM_3579)
I actually don't know why everyone hates him. I think it's because once you get to be nice to him, he does something that makes you hate him again.
wait, why do you hate him? what did he do to make you hate him or do you just hate him because everyone else hates him??
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Stay nice! This generation needs more nice people! Everybody nowadays is so passive, selfish, rude and ignorant. It's unattractive.
It's nice to be nice, but only if people deserve it. If you're nice to people who don't then they have no incentive to modify their behaviour and attitude.
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(Original post by MnM_3579)
So, basically, there is this guy at my school and everyone hates him. Including me- but I don't show it as others do.I have been raised to be nice to everyone and that is what I was doing.but...Now the guy likes me and I can't get rid of him. What do I do???
You should ignore him as much you can. Some people take advantage of your courteous nature (I am not saying he is like this) and then the time comes where it becomes extremely difficult to sort them out. So you must be straight up with him otherwise its going to get difficult with time.
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