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there is a guy i like but i am not sure if he likes me back or not and when i try to bring it up i get ghosted what should i do?
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Maybe he isn't that comfortable around you yet? Try and get to know him more and let him learn more about you also, if he really is "the one" things should just click.

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there is a guy i like but i am not sure if he likes me back or not and when i try to bring it up i get ghosted what should i do?
It sounds like he is just avoiding the question.

If he is one of the popular or confident boys and is ignoring the question it probably means he doesn't like you and is hoping you will give up.

If he is quite shy and quiet (like me) and is ignoring the messages, he is probably trying to avoid the question. If he is ignoring the question and topic it suggests that he probably has a crush on you. Next time you try to bring it up with him try using something like: 'I really like you and I was just wondering whether you felt the same way about me?'. If he is quite shy this might make him more likely to open up because he knows you're unlikely to judge him because you already like him. The worst thing that can happen is rejection, however, it isn't as bad as it sounds because unrequited love is not good or fun.
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(Original post by tuftyispie)
It sounds like he is just avoiding the question.

If he is one of the popular or confident boys and is ignoring the question it probably means he doesn't like you and is hoping you will give up.

If he is quite shy and quiet (like me) and is ignoring the messages, he is probably trying to avoid the question. If he is ignoring the question and topic it suggests that he probably has a crush on you. Next time you try to bring it up with him try using something like: 'I really like you and I was just wondering whether you felt the same way about me?'. If he is quite shy this might make him more likely to open up because he knows you're unlikely to judge him because you already like him. The worst thing that can happen is rejection, however, it isn't as bad as it sounds because unrequited love is not good or fun.
Took the words out of my mouth- It's honestly so much better to air it and tell him exactly how you feel. I will say, rejection does hurt, but it does get easier. And it's always worth asking because he might well say yes! Do it in person so you won't get ghosted over text, and besides, it's much more genuine in person. Good luck!
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Ask him out. There's no shame asking him out first. He might be thinking the same as you
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you bring big vagine to him abnd he will happy soon.
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there is a guy i like but i am not sure if he likes me back or not and when i try to bring it up i get ghosted what should i do?
No. I just told her. She didn't feel the same, but that's not stopped me turning into Severus Snape a little.


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you bring big vagine to him abnd he will happy soon.
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No. I just told her. She didn't feel the same, but that's not stopped me turning into Severus Snape a little.


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1st bit okay....... but second part

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show bobs and vagane very seckse
ew no
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1st bit okay....... but second part

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In all seriousness just be honest and open with him. There's no harm in the truth, when used wisely.

As for the second bit, it's a meme that's gone round for a while:
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In all seriousness just be honest and open with him. There's no harm in the truth, when used wisely.

As for the second bit, it's a meme that's gone round for a while:
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haha okay and thank you for the advice
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