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I'm embarassed with the size of my ...

As the title says, im embarassed with the size of my penis. Especially because im a pretty tall guy. I'm 6'1, so girls would expect of me to have a big package.. which i dont. I got a girlfriend, but we still didnt have sex (i never had sex before) and I'm afraid i wont be able to statisfy her during sex, and she would even laugh when sees it. (Talking about penetration only). My penis is at its best 5.7" inches in length when erect and at best 4.5" in girth, so not only that it looks just to small, i swear it looks like a micro penis, its also thin af like a tooth pick. I read so many articles about how average size is between this and that but then also read how women prefer bigger sizes because it feels better. I'm afraid I'm to small, and she wont even feel it and it will be just weird, not to mention i'll probably come in 2 minutes at best. Should i even have sex, or should i just use my fingers and tongue?

Reply 1

Original post by Anonymous
Should i even have sex,


You will definitely need to at some point in your life. You know for a fact that you will regret it if you don't and the longer you leave it the more pressure and anxiety you will put on yourself

Reply 2

What he said^^^^^

Reply 3

You’re totally fine, don’t stress. Contrary to porn women don’t see a huge d*ck and instantly cream. The size doesn’t determine how good the sex is 👍🏻

Reply 4

But still, whats the point of me going in her if she wont even feel im in there?

Reply 5

Original post by Anonymous
As the title says, im embarassed with the size of my penis. Especially because im a pretty tall guy. I'm 6'1, so girls would expect of me to have a big package.. which i dont. I got a girlfriend, but we still didnt have sex (i never had sex before) and I'm afraid i wont be able to statisfy her during sex, and she would even laugh when sees it. (Talking about penetration only). My penis is at its best 5.7" inches in length when erect and at best 4.5" in girth, so not only that it looks just to small, i swear it looks like a micro penis, its also thin af like a tooth pick. I read so many articles about how average size is between this and that but then also read how women prefer bigger sizes because it feels better. I'm afraid I'm to small, and she wont even feel it and it will be just weird, not to mention i'll probably come in 2 minutes at best. Should i even have sex, or should i just use my fingers and tongue?

The UK average is 3.5 inches flaccid and 5.1 inches erect.

Reply 6

Original post by Anonymous
But still, whats the point of me going in her if she wont even feel im in there?

she will feel it, you haven't got a micropenis, you're above average.

Reply 7

the uk average is 5.1-2 inches, so...? don't get your knickers in a twist over the small stuff

Reply 8

Maybe OP is confusing inches with cm.
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Reply 9

Original post by rasputshealthbar
the uk average is 5.1-2 inches, so...? don't get your knickers in a twist over the small stuff

hahaha.

Honestly OP, as sigh-inducing as it sounds, it's not the size, it's what you do with it. Also, it's above average anyway. My ex reckoned his was 6 inches and I was joking arguing saying it's not, and he said it is, get a ruler then, so I did, and it was 4 inches, and also very thin. I literally couldn't feel that inside me sometimes and had to ask was he in.
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Reply 10

Original post by Anonymous
As the title says, im embarassed with the size of my penis. Especially because im a pretty tall guy. I'm 6'1, so girls would expect of me to have a big package.. which i dont. I got a girlfriend, but we still didnt have sex (i never had sex before) and I'm afraid i wont be able to statisfy her during sex, and she would even laugh when sees it. (Talking about penetration only). My penis is at its best 5.7" inches in length when erect and at best 4.5" in girth, so not only that it looks just to small, i swear it looks like a micro penis, its also thin af like a tooth pick. I read so many articles about how average size is between this and that but then also read how women prefer bigger sizes because it feels better. I'm afraid I'm to small, and she wont even feel it and it will be just weird, not to mention i'll probably come in 2 minutes at best. Should i even have sex, or should i just use my fingers and tongue?

Girls who are smoking hot and can pick guys will overlook you. Best to go for the less attractive /picky gals

Reply 11

hey you aren't going to trouble the guys at The Guiness Book of Records, but that does not matter. if you are hung like a mastodon then most ladies won't be able to enjoy your equipment.

Reply 12

who actually laughs at penises, ive never heard of someone to actually laugh at a penis. most women arent empowered enough to turn down sex. and it seems "faking it" is their fav topic to chatter about amongst each other anyways dont worry. a bf with a small willy leaves an attention seeking anecdote girls crave, shell love you.

Reply 13

It’s what you do with what you do have that counts :h:

Reply 14

Look, men have to stop worrying about penis size. How you treat her overall and how giving you are in bed matter way more.You can make her quiver with your tongue far more than with any size penis. Read everything you can on oral, be energetic when you do it, and pay attention to the spots that make her gasp. I have found that penis size is comparable to breast size. Some people are going to obsess about those features in a partner, but most people are looking for a someone who cares about them, treats people well, offers good conversation, and puts effort into their appearance.

Reply 15

Original post by Anonymous
As the title says, im embarassed with the size of my penis. Especially because im a pretty tall guy. I'm 6'1, so girls would expect of me to have a big package.. which i dont. I got a girlfriend, but we still didnt have sex (i never had sex before) and I'm afraid i wont be able to statisfy her during sex, and she would even laugh when sees it. (Talking about penetration only). My penis is at its best 5.7" inches in length when erect and at best 4.5" in girth, so not only that it looks just to small, i swear it looks like a micro penis, its also thin af like a tooth pick. I read so many articles about how average size is between this and that but then also read how women prefer bigger sizes because it feels better. I'm afraid I'm to small, and she wont even feel it and it will be just weird, not to mention i'll probably come in 2 minutes at best. Should i even have sex, or should i just use my fingers and tongue?

I’m the exact same measurements as you same height and worried about the same things makes me feel a lot better knowing they’res other people in my boat