Any girls that can give a 22yr old guy advice? Please?

I guess text her and apologise to clear up the misunderstanding. If she’s still avoiding you, then give her some space, she probably now feels uncomfortable around you. But just say what you said here, it’ll be alright, she probably had some time to think and doesn’t have the same interest. You were also quite quick with that, future advice is to get to know someone properly and try to understand if they share the same feelings as you.

Don't text her. You don't want her to have any evidence in writing that could be taken out of context and used as evidence of sexual harassment against you.

Simply say to her in person at work, preferably in private that you fully understand her texting you on Friday to turn down your invitation. And that you won't hold it against her in any way. And that you don't intend giving her any more social invitations in the future. And that you are happy to keep on working in the same department as her and happy to keep your relationship on a strictly professional basis.

In other words that you are totally cool about her turning you down.
You may want to add a brief sincere apology that you took her mentioning that she had no plans at the week-end several times on Friday as a hint that she'd be happy to go for a coffee with you after work (or whatever your actual date suggestion was) and that you simply got it wrong and mis-read the situation.


She feels embarassed that you asked her out and that she turned you down via text.

Thank you 😊 this is good advice!

Is this an acceptable thing to say or most likely end up texting....

I'm sorry if I made you feel uncomfortable last Friday after the conversation we had. I clearly misread the situation and feel pretty stupid now. It was wrong of me to put you on the spot like that and was simply un-professional. I hope you can forgive me for this misjudgment and that we can stay friends.