Hey guys,
I had a problem with a tight foreskin since I was a teenager and was always uncomfortable retracting and couldn't do it all the way when I was erect, so I tried many stretching creams etc, but nothing ever helped. So I went to the doctor and she suggested to do a frenuplasty or a circumsicion, frenuplasty seemed like the better option and so I did it.. One year after that however it's now worst than before. The skin is still tight, the penis bends more when flaccid and erect, under the penis it is desensitized, and I am more frustrated than I have ever been. I am a 22 year old male who is still a virgin because these problems always prevented me from going all the way with a woman, I am handsome and many girls liked me before and I liked them too, but I never wanted to get serious with them because I always wanted to resolve that issue and was embarrassed.
Feels like I am in deep waters trying to fight a current, 22 year old and should be in my prime and instead I am dealing with these problems, but what can you do that's life..
The doctor said that the only option now is circumsicion, she gave me 6 months to think about the decision, and I really have no Idea what to do anymore, with an already disentisized screwed up penis.
I hope somebody can help me and has some knowledge with this issue.
My question is this, do you guys think if I do a circumsicions after the frenuplasty, will it be double the desentization or would it be the same as if a person did a circumsicion in the first place? I really don't want to do circumsicion but it seems like its what I need to do in order to have any sex life and hopefully find myself a girl.. but the biggest thing I fear is that I did frenuplasty and if I do a circumcision on top of that it will make my penis numb or messed up, I wish I never did the operation or did a circumcision first.
Do you guys think its going to be any worst or any different if I did circumcision only versus doing frenuplasty and then circumcision?
And did anybody had the same problem or already experienced something like this...?
Please help with any comments or knowledge you can, and I would appreciate it.
Thank you, and I hope I am in the right forum