I started university in September 2018 and moved out around 2 hours away from home. For the first semester there was no feeling of missing home or anyone at all. During this time university wasn’t great too, didn’t make many friends, spent far too much time in my room but I kept going. Now coming back to university after Christmas holidays I feel so homesick and don’t want to be at university anymore. There is no one to talk to, flat mates don’t talk, lectures haven’t started, no societies running, campus is empty. I wake up and spend my whole day in a room doing nothing, it feels very suffocating. Should I drop out. Someone please help me, what should I do? Also on another note, first semester was exactly the same but I don’t know what kept me going.
Then make friends. At a lecture casually sit next to someone and just talk to them.
Find something to do if you get bored. Like going to the gym, swimming, indoor rock climbing, etc
You will also make new friends by finding common interests like above ^^^
I really, don't think you should drop out unless it is the only option.
By the way I have spoken to so many people but no one seems interested in engaging in any conversation. I’ve tried involving myself in activities but days go slow and I find myself alone again.
Thanks for the suggestions but I’ve tried speaking to several people in lectures, societies, clubs but all of them don’t engage in a conversation. There’s nothing I can do about this, I’ve tried everything possible. I can only wait for time to pass until April but that’s a very long time