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Hi me and my boyfriend have been together a year! Both 19.
I’ve caught him in the past going behind my back messing with other girls ( twice) but I forgave him and gave him one last chance.
He’s usually always asking me to go round to his and sleep there and always see each other 2/3 times a week.
It’s been a week since I last saw him because he said he’s been too busy and ‘ hasn’t had time’ so I have accepted that this may be the truth but I was meant to sleep over at his tonight and he said he’s ‘ too tired’ because he’s been playing rugby. He’s semi pro at this and trains a lot so I understand this is probably physically tireing but why does that mean he can’t see me for a full week and can just cancel plans.
I’m worried that it may be an excuse or he may be talking to other girls again because he hasn’t been texting me as much either.
It’s fustrating because I’m working Sunday and Monday so I thought it would of been nice to just chill out together tonight and Tommorow. What should I do? Help
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Hi me and my boyfriend have been together a year! Both 19.
I’ve caught him in the past going behind my back messing with other girls ( twice) but I forgave him and gave him one last chance.
He’s usually always asking me to go round to his and sleep there and always see each other 2/3 times a week.
It’s been a week since I last saw him because he said he’s been too busy and ‘ hasn’t had time’ so I have accepted that this may be the truth but I was meant to sleep over at his tonight and he said he’s ‘ too tired’ because he’s been playing rugby. He’s semi pro at this and trains a lot so I understand this is probably physically tireing but why does that mean he can’t see me for a full week and can just cancel plans.
I’m worried that it may be an excuse or he may be talking to other girls again because he hasn’t been texting me as much either.
It’s fustrating because I’m working Sunday and Monday so I thought it would of been nice to just chill out together tonight and Tommorow. What should I do? Help
What you mean messaging, were they just normal friendly messages or of a sexual kind? either way does sound like there is a lack of trust in this relationship.
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Communication

The holy grail of relationship stability, use it
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What you mean messaging, were they just normal friendly messages or of a sexual kind? either way does sound like there is a lack of trust in this relationship.
Flirty messages, was going on for months even though he promised and reassured me they were only freinds, there is lack of trust I don’t trust him one bit
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Flirty messages, was going on for months even though he promised and reassured me they were only freinds, there is lack of trust I don’t trust him one bit
You can't have a relationship with him if you don't trust him.
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