so I’m a couple months into year 10 and I have an unhealthy crush on my teacher , I’m 15 and he’s 36 next month (we was talking about it in lesson) he also has a WIFE , I think I am in love with him and I need help as I’ve gotten stronger feelings as the months passed, he has helped me through a lot recently as we had a discussion about my ex and he helped me decide what I should do as we was still together at that point, he also now knows I’m still a Virgin, so he knows a lot of personal things about me I also know one story about his ex which I’m not going to expose, I really need help does anyone have any suggestions on what to do I feel like I wanna open up to him so I can move classes as I feel that’s the right thing to do but then I think of the phone call home and the talk around the staff room , I’m in a really crap situation PLEASE HELP what do I do!!?!
You don’t love him. High school crush it’ll blow over and you’ll laugh at yourself in sixth form
ik I’ve thought of this a lot People say it’s a high school crush but I really don’t think it is because there’s a few teachers I’ve had a crush on but never had feelings for anyone like this before it’s gotten to the point Of I’m having actual sex dreams about him and I’m scared of my jealousy
I’ve tried so hard to do that but then I always find myself drawn back to him and I know that it’s bad but I just can’t stop
Think about this.You are a student and he is a teacher who is married.Nope.Don't go there.Best would be to try and move class and maybe it's just infatuation.
If you act on this you're going to risk him losing his job.
Ask to move classes. You don't have to say the real reason why you want to move.
Stop talking to him about personal things. Be civil, friendly, but keep a distance.
You'll get over him. It should be easier knowing he's your teacher and has a wife so nothing can realistically ever happen.
This is ridiculous. If you act on this he will lose his job. You’re putting his entire career at risk. He doesn’t feel the same way about you and is only doing his job. Move classes
Wait a minute, you're 15 and have a crush on your teacher? Perhaps it's the raging hormones that's making you feel like that. Please move over and switch classes. You will adapt as time passes and these feelings will subside. OP, you need to find someone sensible enough like a your student counselor who can help with that.
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