Always getting cockblocked on nightout

I’m not ugly, just not the best looking, there’s a difference and never had any luck online.

OP, you come across as angry, desperate and hostile towards women with a low opinion of them and a tendency to objectify them. Not many women will be attracted to that, and it's also a recipe for failure in any actual relationship.

As others have said, sort yourself out first. Get support for mental health - yours - and focus on things that you like and that interest you. Women are not objects to be "got". They are people, with needs, feelings, and wishes just like you. Sort yourself out first, then you will be ready for a relationship, not before.

Talk to girls who are the same as you in terms of looks then

You serious?

I had women from diverse of looks speak but not as trying to chat me up, just like general getting served at a till or checking in a hotel.

Clearly they’re not going to ignore if you’re a customer lol

Tootles I think we all are desperate until we find someone, I won't say he is desperate because every human being is looking for love, even people say that hugging a tree is good for your health it releases stress then obviously hugging and kissing your opposite sex will surely do, so when you don't get anyone to do that you automatically get stressed and desperate.

There are definitely leagues.

Subjectivity only counts for a little. For example, no girl would think a guy is 10/10 if he is a 3/10 in general, and if he thinks he's a 3/10.

He might even overestimate his looks too. Generally speaking, uglier looking guys will overestimate how good looking they are, and good looking guys would tend to underestimate it. Sometimes I definitely feel like my face is 8/10, but I don't want to come off like I'm vain, so I'd say I'm 7/10. Some girls would think I'm perfect looking, but I'd just brush it off and say thank you.

He thinks he's a 5/10, but he might be overestimating his looks and girls would probably think he's a 3/10 in general. I don't see how a single girl would find him a 10/10. So yes, subjectivity counts, but only a tiny factor in terms of looks.

I take it you're in your early twenties and therefore know everything?

You are still in not a mood to understand so leave it boy

who do you think you're talking to?

Based on your own post earlier subjectivity can apparently count for a maximum of 3 points different, so if he is an "in general" 3/10 (ignoring the fact that this thought of yours isn't very well erm... thought) that would mean some girls out there will at least see my man as a 6, which is one point better than what he sees himself as.

Given your whole over/underestimation theory (which almost entirely nukes the concept of self esteem and obliterates modern psychological understanding of such, but hey ho) there is some degree of standard deviation, but if we assume your maximum range of error is 3 points, and that OP is "in general" (so his mean value? idk I failed stats) a 3/10 then it stands to reason that some girls somewhere would reasonably assume him to be as he says (a 5/10), with some even possibly thinking he's a strong 6.

If we assume some girls in the club will assume he is a 6, and then assume that people in the club get as hammered on drink as I do and that it effects their standards in a similar way, then OP shouldn't have much of a problem finding somebody willing to smash. I'd go for a 6 after 7 pints. It's also interesting to note that you haven't explained how the attractiveness of who he goes for is at all relevant, which seems to be core to the whole application of leagues as a concept. Do more (on average) attractive girls become somehow miraculously more harsh on their grading of others? Is their standard deviation and margin of error lower? Does alcohol magically affect their inhibitions less than it would in an uglier individual?

You've raised a lot of questions, and at the very least it's becoming quite clear that you don't entirely follow your own theory in practice, given the issues that it raises and the fact that it would technically imply that OP is in with a chance with any girl at least some of the time. SO, with all that in mind, would it therefore not be easier to assume that leagues are a kind of ******** concept that nobody should take that seriously?

First of all when I try to approach women every time I go for a nightout I usually receive f*** off signals like women discretely moving to the otherside of the room, I’ve had them swift their hands forward telling me to shoo like I’m some dog even one woman last night told me to stay away from her and what’s ironic I didn’t had any intentions approaching her in the first place since she did seem to like to be left alone. I’m not the most confident and not the best looking guy out there since no girl ever had a physical or romantic level. I understand that you can’t force someone to find you attractive or like you but just imagine if a man rejected a women that tried to approach him and he didn’t find her attractive then he’d be lebrler worst then Hitler.

When I do successfully approach a woman, every time, their girl friend (usually some unattractive looking feminist) clockblocks by pulling her away from me then I get the typical shoo shoo like I’m some f*ckboy but I assure you a socially inept virgin like myself is not. I understand that women would cockblock for the interest of protecting their girl friends from being taken the advantage or it’s down envy because they know deep down that they are the least attractive friend and no guy would look at them twice. Whatever the reason, I’m pretty sure the individual could speak for herself.

Excuse the feeling sorry for myself but I’m sick of suffering a pain of loneliness Of never once coming close to coming to having a partner and still embarrassed about being a virgin still in my 20s. Everyone around me all have partners, expect for me. For the past 7 years I been patronised with the same bs with the “your time will come soon” “there’s someone out there for everybody”, “don’t worry you’ll find someone soon” but still no luck.

The bold section of your reply is basically rape. You're basically saying "wait for them to get smashed enough so that she can't think properly and she thinks you're hot", this is rape. This is ridiculous. You're basically saying he should be a predator and seek women when they are most vulnerable, and the people who liked your comment should be ashamed.

Not the best and same for facial expressions, don’t understand what impressions I give out people. If I give out negative vibes towards a girl, it’s uniention since not that the suitable ability to understand my own but also other people’s body language and facial expressions.