Hi, I started uni last September after completing an access to social sciences course, am currently studying history and philosophy. I have two young kids and a mortgage. I was the main earner and my husband a stay at home Dad, who worked the occasional weekend shift. it was a scary thought at first but I hated my job (a well paid job) and was unhappy. I sat down and worked out all our outgoings and the. worked out incomings if I left, luckily my husband went full time in his occasional weekend job but it was for a lot less than what I had been taking home.
1. in the end we have coped ok. We can't spend how we used to and we are still getting used to a smaller income, but we are making it work. We are both happier though, my husband likes his work well enough and I love uni. It is worth it.
2. Right now I am lucky, my husband works full time and I qualified for maintenance loan and a bursary at uni, I am on child tax credits but when we are transferred to universal credit we won't have that income anymore, by then my youngest will be in primary and if need be will get a part time job (however both of us agree that with his shift work, uni work and two young kids we will try to survive without me doing that, maybe only over the summer).
3.Honestly, I have never looked back. Best decision I have made.
4. Yes, it's been so different and a great experience. I have learnt loads already and looking forward to rest of degree.
5. No. I am in Scotland and my fees are paid, it's just the living loan (6750py). It's not like other debt. You only pay back when you earn over a certain amount and it's only a percentage of what you earn (21k and 9%, I think, would have to check). Also you only pay up to pension age and then the rest is 'written off' (for want of a better term.
6. This is not something I have had to worry about yet, however I know other students on my college course who are now at uni who have managed financially with uni loan and working part time. It depends on your outgoings compared to your incomings, but we have managed on a lot less since I quit my job. We all go without the little extra things and honestly none of us notice it so much, it forced as to different things from food to days out etc. It's doable if you really want this.
Good luck, I don't think you will have any regrets.