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My girlfriend and I finally have a day alone in a few days and she is implying that she wants to get frisky... full well knowing I’ve never had sex before. I’ve told her I’m a bit nervous but up for it when she asked. However this is my first time. I’m not bothered about how it goes, I’m more bothered about how she will view me naked. And it’s really making me anxious. She’s seen be toplees but nothing else.

How do I overcome this?!
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read the communist manifesto before you get frisky
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Have you tried talking to her about how you feel?
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How old are you? if she's a caring girlfriend so won't mind its your first time. She might even like how its your first time instead of being with someone who's slept with lots of other girls.
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read the communist manifesto before you get frisky
Is the joke that it will relieve anxieties about the world; or gets you turned on?
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How old are you? if she's a caring girlfriend so won't mind its your first time. She might even like how its your first time instead of being with someone who's slept with lots of other girls.
Couldn't agree more!
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My girlfriend and I finally have a day alone in a few days and she is implying that she wants to get frisky... full well knowing I’ve never had sex before. I’ve told her I’m a bit nervous but up for it when she asked. However this is my first time. I’m not bothered about how it goes, I’m more bothered about how she will view me naked. And it’s really making me anxious. She’s seen be toplees but nothing else.

How do I overcome this?!
If she loves you she'll understand that you're going to be nervous and will be fine with it.
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