Your friend shouldn't be relying on your assignments to get work done. She needs to get her head in her own game, not yours. Maybe you should point that out to her. This is your life and not hers, and she needs to realise that.
Your not a bad person, I completely understand what its like to be protective over your work and if she thinks your a horrible person for it, then she is actually the horrible person for blaming her own shortcomings on someone else.
What you got there is a leech who can't be bothered to do their own work. It's fine to send them stuff once in a while, but if its consistent, don't bother.
try and prove her wrong and tell her what u feel that she upset u and tell her she was out of order
Yeah she doesn't sound like a very good friend tbh. Tell her you'll help her whenever but you're not just going to straight up give her your assignments. Don't forget you have the power here. It's your work she wants, not the other way round.
Your "friend" is moron. If you get caught doing such a thing you can get kicked out of university. Don't risk your place at university just because this other person is too lazy and/or incompetent to do their own work. If you want advise, stay away from this person from now on.
You can work together, bounce ideas off each other etc. but she needs to write her own stuff. That she's so dependent on you to send her yours means she isn't putting in the effort her side.
Why do you see her as a friend, if you don't mind me asking? From what you've said there she's actively trying to turn people against you out of her own laziness, in order to extort your hard work.
(Original post by Anonymous)
My friend thinks I’m that type of person that hates sending my assignments and hate helping my uni friends. Her assumption is really wrong and I love helping people. But if I worked hard in my assignments and literally spend lots of hours to complete it why do I have to send it to them? I’m acc dumb and I just try to work really hard to pass.
She really humiliated me in front of her friends(during a phone call)and made me look like a horrible person.
At university, you should protect your work like you would your credit card details. Don't share them with anyone. If she wants to see your assignments, then that means she would probably be happy to pass it off as her own, then you would both get in trouble. Why would you let someone do that? See, you wouldn't.
If she's desperate for help, why doesn't she pay a visit to the lecturer? If she can't grow up and do her own work, why is she even at university?
Last edited by PhoenixFortune; 4 weeks ago
you shouldnt share it with anyone in case its highlighted as plagiarism!
Listen to the previous poster - if this is flagged as plagerism you would have something more serious to worry about than your friend being immature. Can't believe your unis haven't flagged this to you - most of them are red hot on it now and it is quite easy to fall foul of it, from copying stuff from the internet or sharing assingments. Please don't go there and put your own position at risk.