When he gets mad at me my FWB reminds me I'm not his girlfriend Watch

Pssantos
Badges: 2
Rep:
?
#1
Report Thread starter 3 weeks ago
#1
I've been seeing this guy on and off for about 4 months. He's a Scorpio and I'm a Capricorn and we both agreed that there's sexual chemistry. He was supposed to come over the other day to smoke and drop off something I forgot in his car the night before but never made it. Long story short he got mad I read the message and didn't reply right away. Now I feel like I'm getting the cold shoulder but when I said ill stop dming him if hes not interested he said he's been busy. I guess my question is is he playing hard to get or is he just not that interested?
0
reply
Minxel
Badges: 16
Rep:
?
#2
Report 3 weeks ago
#2
Sounds like he’s not worth the time to be honest and I would be packing up and leaving (metaphorically speaking).
Basically I’d be ending it. It doesn’t sound like there is much consideration for your time and usually a lot of guys don’t play hard to get if they’re in a FWB situation because there’s no need to.
In my opinion (and I may be wrong) but it seems like you’re not on his list of priorities but he likes to keep you dangling anyway. I don’t want to sound harsh with that but thats how I see it.
Just out of curiosity, does the horoscopes have anything to do with it? I’m not asking with attitude or sarcastically or anything, I’m genuinely curious about that
Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play
3
reply
Pssantos
Badges: 2
Rep:
?
#3
Report Thread starter 3 weeks ago
#3
IIt really doesn't have to do with anything other than to see if Scorpios normally do things like that
0
reply
londonmyst
Badges: 18
Rep:
?
#4
Report 3 weeks ago
#4
Find another fwb.
This guy sounds controlling and seems to have a tendency towards spite.
My last ex was a scorpio and I will never date another.
I'm not into horoscopes but every single scorpio I have crossed paths with had either a terribly destructive nature or sociopathic tendencies.
0
reply
Minxel
Badges: 16
Rep:
?
#5
Report 3 weeks ago
#5
(Original post by londonmyst)
Find another fwb.
This guy sounds controlling and seems to have a tendency towards spite.
My last ex was a scorpio and I will never date another.
I'm not into horoscopes but every single scorpio I have crossed paths with had either a terribly destructive nature or sociopathic tendencies.
Oh no I’m a Scorpio but I don’t think I have a destructive or sociopathic tendancy. I’m all about creation
Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play
1
reply
RazzzBerries
Badges: 17
Rep:
?
#6
Report 3 weeks ago
#6
(Original post by Minxel)
Oh no I’m a Scorpio but I don’t think I have a destructive or sociopathic tendancy. I’m all about creation
#NiceScorpiosMatter

- Another Scorpio
3
reply
Minxel
Badges: 16
Rep:
?
#7
Report 3 weeks ago
#7
(Original post by RazzzBerries)
#NiceScorpiosMatter

- Another Scorpio
#NotAllScorpios
I’m going to start a group for Wholesome Scorpios. We get a bad rep sometimes. 🦂💜
Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play
2
reply
RazzzBerries
Badges: 17
Rep:
?
#8
Report 3 weeks ago
#8
(Original post by Minxel)
#NotAllScorpios
I’m going to start a group for Wholesome Scorpios. We get a bad rep sometimes. 🦂💜
<3

I'll be there
0
reply
roarer
Badges: 7
Rep:
?
#9
Report 3 weeks ago
#9
aye can definitely confirm #notallscorpios

wasn't our faults when we popped out the womb. we're not all evil
Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play
2
reply
Lilligant22
Badges: 19
Rep:
?
#10
Report 3 weeks ago
#10
Suddenly, this thread is more-so about discussing Scorpios :P

He sounds a bit odd and it's like he's trying to make your relationship with him into something it's not. Maybe he wants you to like him or something? There would be no reason to be playing hard to get in a relationship like that unless it somehow made your sexual chemistry stronger.

P.S I'm also a Capricorn. We rock!
0
reply
Miss Maddie
Badges: 18
Rep:
?
#11
Report 3 weeks ago
#11
It's jealousy. He's mad because he wants to be yours. He hates you have FWB. He wants that to be him. Internally it's killing him knowing you're shagging someone else
0
reply
Notoriety
Badges: 21
Rep:
?
#12
Report 3 weeks ago
#12
(Original post by londonmyst)
Find another fwb.
This guy sounds controlling and seems to have a tendency towards spite.
My last ex was a scorpio and I will never date another.
I'm not into horoscopes but every single scorpio I have crossed paths with had either a terribly destructive nature or sociopathic tendencies.
"I am not into horoscopes but I will not date another Scorpio." OK, lady.
1
reply
Minxel
Badges: 16
Rep:
?
#13
Report 3 weeks ago
#13
(Original post by Lilligant22)
Suddenly, this thread is more-so about discussing Scorpios :P

He sounds a bit odd and it's like he's trying to make your relationship with him into something it's not. Maybe he wants you to like him or something? There would be no reason to be playing hard to get in a relationship like that unless it somehow made your sexual chemistry stronger.

P.S I'm also a Capricorn. We rock!
I know, I feel respsonsible for that one 🤭

But I agree, I can’t see why there would be any need to play hard to get. FWB is one of those situations where it’s difficult to get a fine balance Mostly the only time it really works is when neither party are really that interested in each other and it’s purely about sex - but then that is probably more “sex buddies” than FWB since you’re not really doing the friend part.
It’s a tricky one.
Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play
0
reply
boom88
Badges: 2
Rep:
?
#14
Report 3 weeks ago
#14
(Original post by londonmyst)
Find another fwb.
This guy sounds controlling and seems to have a tendency towards spite.
My last ex was a scorpio and I will never date another.
I'm not into horoscopes but every single scorpio I have crossed paths with had either a terribly destructive nature or sociopathic tendencies.
You believe in horoscopes?
0
reply
londonmyst
Badges: 18
Rep:
?
#15
Report 3 weeks ago
#15
(Original post by boom88)
You believe in horoscopes?
No.
0
reply
londonmyst
Badges: 18
Rep:
?
#16
Report 3 weeks ago
#16
(Original post by Notoriety)
"I am not into horoscopes but I will not date another Scorpio." OK, lady.
Story of my life, I'm a walking mass of contradictions.
How nice of you to refer to me as lady, no other lawyer has been that courteous today.
With my relationship history, I could easily substitute a few words to read I am not into Ulster sectarianism but I will never date another loyalist from Sandy Row or the Shankhill.
If teen criminal stupidity was a crime, I'd have a longer rap sheet than half of King Rat's gang.
1
reply
AngelStarfire
Badges: 15
Rep:
?
#17
Report 3 weeks ago
#17
(Original post by Pssantos)
I've been seeing this guy on and off for about 4 months. He's a Scorpio and I'm a Capricorn and we both agreed that there's sexual chemistry. He was supposed to come over the other day to smoke and drop off something I forgot in his car the night before but never made it. Long story short he got mad I read the message and didn't reply right away. Now I feel like I'm getting the cold shoulder but when I said ill stop dming him if hes not interested he said he's been busy. I guess my question is is he playing hard to get or is he just not that interested?
Sorry I stopped taking you seriously once I saw horoscopes lol. But I would say that you should dump him, not worth your time or effort.
1
reply
Notoriety
Badges: 21
Rep:
?
#18
Report 3 weeks ago
#18
(Original post by londonmyst)
Story of my life, I'm a walking mass of contradictions.
How nice of you to refer to me as lady, no other lawyer has been that courteous today.
With my relationship history, I could easily substitute a few words to read I am not into Ulster sectarianism but I will never date another loyalist from Sandy Row or the Shankhill.
If teen criminal stupidity was a crime, I'd have a longer rap sheet than half of King Rat's gang.
What did the lawyers call you today, might I ask? Was it because you turned up to court in your Nike Air Max trainers/trackie mix while donning a knock-off Burberry cap? Again.
0
reply
londonmyst
Badges: 18
Rep:
?
#19
Report 3 weeks ago
#19
(Original post by Notoriety)
What did the lawyers call you today, might I ask? Was it because you turned up to court in your Nike Air Max trainers/trackie mix while donning a knock-off Burberry cap? Again.
Mostly four and five letter expletives.
The most vocal one accompanied his choice phrases with feedback on my looks, bra size and suitability for cosmetic surgery.
He prefers to harass blondes, must have been very disappointed at having no other options but keeping his insults to himself or make do with me.
Had to agree with one thing he yelled, he probably does have larger t*** than me.
0
reply
Bio 7
Badges: 21
Rep:
?
#20
Report 3 weeks ago
#20
(Original post by Pssantos)
IIt really doesn't have to do with anything other than to see if Scorpios normally do things like that
No because it doesn’t mean anything.
Posted on the TSR App. Download from Apple or Google Play
1
reply
X

Quick Reply

Attached files
Write a reply...
Reply
new posts
Latest
My Feed

See more of what you like on
The Student Room

You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

Personalise

Do you give blood?

Yes (38)
10%
I used to but I don't now (12)
3.16%
No, but I want to start (137)
36.05%
No, I am unable to (86)
22.63%
No, I chose not to (107)
28.16%

Watched Threads

View All