18 and never had a girlfriend HELP Watch

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reeeeeeeeeeeeee

i'm gonna be single 4ever , someone help
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im 22 and single. my life is way too busy for that
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What do you think's the reason? I mean, do you portray yourself as the 'friendly guy' and get friendzoned by the girls you like? Or do you just not meet many girls? Should probably start with working out where you've gone wrong if you wanna get into dating lmao. It's nothing to be worried about, maybe you just need to put yourself out there a bit more. Any friends you can ask to set you up with someone?
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im 22 and single. my life is way too busy for that
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What do you think's the reason? I mean, do you portray yourself as the 'friendly guy' and get friendzoned by the girls you like? Or do you just not meet many girls? Should probably start with working out where you've gone wrong if you wanna get into dating lmao. It's nothing to be worried about, maybe you just need to put yourself out there a bit more. Any friends you can ask to set you up with someone?
i'm just so lonely idk what im doing wrong in life , heeeeeeeelpppppp
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Go out and socialise and try to meet people, or try dating apps. You’re not going to be single forever, and honestly relationships start really unexpectedly. I wouldn’t suggest dating just so you stop feeling lonely tho. Feel comfortable with yourself first, before looking for a partner.
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i'm just so lonely idk what im doing wrong in life , heeeeeeeelpppppp
How are you socially? To put it bluntly, do you have many friends? Might just be a social problem not and issue with dating or romantic stuff. I've had a handful of relationships and have met most of them online, through friends. You could try meeting people online who have similar interests? Be safe though, don't trust anyone
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again i have said this before and will say it again. Don't see girls as potential; girlfriends. see them as friends, get to know them. Be kind. Hang out.
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18 years when you're mostly a child is very different to forever.

You will meet the right one.
Try not to worry about it, it's not an expectation of anyone for you to get a partner, and certainly no deadline.
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Hey, you're only 18 years old!

You have plenty of time to experience that .

Don't worry, develop your self confidence, focus on your future, do things that make you happy, enjoy life, go out with your friends.

You can try online dating, speed dating, joining clubs out of interest, meeting females at bars, coffee shops, through education, work, through your network, social circle and approaching them.

Be your best self, dress well, groom well, have a good hairstyle, relax.

In time, you'll meet the right one.
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because ur muslim
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because ur muslim
What does religion have to do with it?!
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What does religion have to do with it?!
well if ur muslim, it's much more unlikely someone will approach u or even be in a relationship with u cause muslims are not allowed to get bfs or gfs.
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What does religion have to do with it?!
some people have religion on the brain
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i'm just so lonely idk what im doing wrong in life , heeeeeeeelpppppp
If even you can't live with yourself, then why should anybody else?
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well if ur muslim, it's much more unlikely someone will approach u or even be in a relationship with u cause muslims are not allowed to get bfs or gfs.
Except OP didn't ask for reasons why they are in this situation. So your post is still confusing me.
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some people have religion on the brain
Indeed.
This is TSR after all. Toughening Staunch Religions.
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Don't worry about it, I am in the same boat but am 19. I don't really care and you shouldn't either. Just try to figure out why you haven't had any relationships and try to fix that if you can't stop worrying.
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reeeeeeeeeeeeee

i'm gonna be single 4ever , someone help
It took me to till the age of 23 to have a girlfriend ( which only lasted 6 weeks but that is because she cheated ) honestly I would just focus on yourself learn new skills and become smarter
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hey u will find someone meanwhile just talk to girls on here
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thank you all for the kind words of encouragement , much appreciated
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I'm nearly 19 and I haven't
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