So I’m in first year uni and I feel quite frustrated coz so many of my uni mates have atleast 2-3 girlfriends and it pisses me off how people like me can’t even find ONE proper decent girl who will stay loyal to me. Does this happen to guys who are too nice or is it just me. All I ever want is a girl who truly understands me, and loves me for who I am. Has true love really died ??
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I think just wait until you're a little older, you will get a better sense of who's loyal and not overtime. Be aware most people around your age want to maintain freedom, discover themselves and run around for sex in the meantime. That will (generally) die away over time.
Keep in good order, be cautious, be optimistic...
The experience of many women including myself is that men who see themselves as nice guys tend to think they are entitled to a relationship/sex and/or come across as really creepy. Either quality Is extremely unattractive.
It's not just about being a 'nice guy' relationships need more then that, you need a connection.
Finding a someone who's mutually interested in you and has a compatible personality is difficult.
if dr alex could do it, so can you
Don't be nice, be kind. Embrace your masculinity.
From my experience, a lot of 'nice guys' tend to make up in personality what they lack in appearance.
While personality is crucial, there needs to be a physical attraction.
Girls want a guy that can make them laugh and cares for them, but ideally they want one that's attractive and gives them butterflies.
Guys do the same. No matter how you might claim, that as long as she's kind, it doesn't matter. If you want a successful relationship there must be a physical attraction.
Just give her a little bit of physical touch and then you'll no longer be that nice guy.
You need to take the red pill and embrace men going their own way (MGTOW).
The truth is we live in a hypergamic society that is biased against men. Women are both promiscious and selective. They will always cheat and always leave you for a superior male. Accept that you don't need them in your life and you will reach your full potential.
Don't envy your friends who seem to have 2-3 girlfriends. They may seem happy now, but they're setting themselves up for rocky times ahead.