Hi
I'm currently 18 studying at Birmingham City University (commuting by train from coventry) and wondering why I'm not much of a party person or ladies man.
I'm working above a grade First at uni and I want to continue keeping it that way but I still don't have any thoughts on having a girlfriend or go out partying like other people at my age usually do.
Some of my friends at uni seem to be the same like me (but we do socialise a lot) but most of my friends from school and NCS seem to like partying and drinking, and they already seem interested in a girlfriend.
I don't know why I prefer staying at home and studying staying away from most of the social stuff, I feel all this stuff could affect my degree and I don't feel ready yet for any of this stuff.
Is it normal that I'm still like this, is it good or bad?
thanks
Hey,
Sorry about your situation. Don't feel like youre the odd one out, there are loads of kids in your situation. Focus on what you enjoy doing, i.e if you dont like partying then dont feel like you have to! If you enjoy learning about the things that you are passionate about, that is also completely normal! However, you are only young once so dont miss out on the opportunity to party every now and then!
Hope this helps,
Thanks, Lance
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