nope our mommas didnt raise us to be sluts lol - would feel incredibly objectified, and stripped of dignity
The money is good and if you’re comfortable for it then go for it. I know that I would at least consider it if I was offered it. It’s personal preference really. I can understand why some women wouldn’t want to but it’s your choice.
Although I would suggest leaving as soon as anything sketchy happened to protect yourself.
How has no one commented that this is really such a disgusting practice that men do, and that they should not be able to get what they want. Women, boycott this at all costs. I don't understand how these events aren't illegal. It makes me sick tk the core that there are scary men out there doing this, and that women's your validation issues/ need for stability are being exploited. Girl, don't do this, please.
Out the address, there should be a protest at the event or something
Look after yourself and stay safe.
Are you being paid for completion of the whole evening, and is the money enough that you'd stick it out after being groped?
I can understand why some women would do it for money back in the 60's. But these days there is so much more opportunity to make money, you can be whatever you want now a days through education. Why not take adavtnage of it.
I did something similar before once, and although it wasn’t topless, we were asked to wear a skimpy tight black dress as our uniform and it was for a mens’ formal dinner in London. Even then, it felt disgusting walking around basically for a bunch of old men to look at.
They didn’t seem that creepy at first but pretty soon a guy touched my arm and made it look like an accident even though it obviously wasn’t. Then a guy told me I looked like his ex but hotter, and gave me his number although I never asked for it. Near the end, while I was serving and holding plates in both hands and reaching for the table, a guy put his hand up my dress and grabbed me for a good 3 seconds. Literally no one even cared. I was just completely lost for words and just gave him his plate. He looked so nonchalant about it as well, like he didn’t even do anything weird.
Wrong place to ask this really, this forum is full of prudes. End of the day, the only person who can answer this question is you and how comfortable you feel about it.
So what I’m saying is don’t underestimate how far these people will go. You might think they’ll just look at you but it’s much worse than you think. It is so traumatic, I felt so dirty and unclean afterwards. The people that go to these events are usually either creeps or think that they’re so powerful and rich that they can do whatever they want. If you’re topless it will probably be even worse, i couldn’t imagine that.