I personally don’t have any issue with nudity having a more European than British attitude to spas, sunbathing and having sat as a life model a few times. However, that is all about being comfortable in my own skin and not being objectified or treated as a sexual object.
Now I have a job, it’d be easy to say no to if I’d been asked. I don’t agree with these sort of evenings where there’ll be a lot of drunk men all leering at girls probably young enough to be their daughters or granddaughters in many cases. However, when I was still at uni, £500 would have been very tempting and helpful for one nights work so I can’t say I’d have ruled it out. I’d probably ask to first speak with girls that had done it previously though and see what their experiences had been like.
Would you want a mate of your dad or a friend's dad to see you? Or you find out this is the kind of place they go to?
I, personally, would not do it, even for the £500. It's not really a thing about being self-conscious (after all, they're paying you to be there. They already know what they want from you, so you shouldn't feel embarrassed by that), but I, personally, would find it degrading. It's become an object of theirs; they're paying you to be subservient (obviously not to the point where you are to allow them to touch you), and they get off knowing that they have such control over you with their money.
It is up to you, if your comfortable doing it then go for it. If you know that it is going to be in a safe environment then it should be fine.
It might be ok to start with but then after the people there have had a few drinks it might get a bit more touchy feely.
Only if men get equal pay.
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