I have been told that I am a soft, effeminate, gay, boring beta male. What can I do to stop this?
Well you cannot really control how you are as genetics unfortuantly can make you more 'feminine', but if you want to be more 'manly' prehaps the gym is a good place to start, as more muscle would overcome some of your feminie qualities, as well as boosting your tetosterone levels. But other than acting like how you want to act you cannot really change. Join a sports team prehaps, I'm trying not to be stereotypical, but a stereotype is there for a reason.
Good lord, what a combination of adjectives, you must be quite the catch..
The moment you stop associating the Greek alphabet with personality types.
Don't stop. It's possible you could get into bed with more women by being more deceptive, arrogant, image-obsessed, and pushy, but it isn't a formula for long-term happiness on anyone's part.
Betas follow the crowd, brah. Carve your own path in life and be completely unapologetic in doing so. The true mark of manliness is to rise above the phone-clutching, beer-swilling, Polo-wearing clones you see all over the place who think they're something special because they have the latest phone and Ralph Lauren shirt that they match with their Gucci purses. The idea of masculinity today couldn't be any less manly.