Recently i've been feeling pretty low, uni hasn't been going well recently and i've been trying to get all my work done and keep up with everything even with the struggles. but the last month i've realised not many of my friends care about me. (Well it feels this way) and the reason i say this is every time i reach out to a friend who's struggling or down, they always say they appreciate me, how i'm a true friend or that i'm too kind. But when i'm having a tough time, which does happen every now and then and that all i need is someone, no ones there for me. Like none of my friends will come out for a quick coffee for me to chat or just hang out on the weekend to shop. And it makes me feel so s**t. I also moved out last year to a studio so i live alone now (Maybe that's not helping). All i'd like is a friend to contact me and see how i am, or to invite me out etc. yet no one does. Is it selfish of me to wish someone would care?
Well honestly ... As 21 years old Girl
As a young woman we do have a lot of emotion that we cannot prevent ourselves to have it ... That's the life emoji ! Anyway you have to say in your mind that more you grow up more you will feel like you'll need people to get involved with your own problem but the things is more people listen to you more people don't find solution ... It's werd right.. you know there's some things we don't talk about it sometimes ... During every challenges we have in our life we believe that's nobody is with us!!! Why do we think like that...Nobody ! Really ...Because we only believe in what we see... The reality is that we never saw who created us... Yes that's right ...And that make us believe during every step in our lives that anonymous that created us don't care about us? Why we are so selfish to think about that people have the ability to make us happy but not him...? If we absolutely don't care about the one who gives us this life !!!! This WHOLE LIFE ... Why as human we don't believe that the one who created us have the ability to solve our problems? Just why? Every day you cry he sees you, every day you complain he sees you, every day you say nobody are here for you he hear you...he knows you're life, he knows your personality better than you think, he see your future knows your past... But we are so selfish and so negative to not Sit down and talk to him in a empty room.
Saying oh My Gad, oh my Lord your the one who created me please solve my problems, please help me cause your the only one that hear, listen to me, have time for me... So do you think it's expensive to talk to your Lord , Does it seems Hard ... ? Or Unreal, unsignificant? If we were used to think in this way we should've be more happier than ever... all the questions we often ask ourselves is the one who is capable to answer not by talking to us straight not by sending us letters... when you want to hear Gad voice is already inside of you but you have to what we call Activate it ... To Activate it you need to love him just by the simple fact he listen to you, being comfortable to say please I want this and that ... Being patient mean let him take time to answer you... Because for every longer answer there's always and Always a big reason we completly ignore. Learn How you would create a relationship between you and Gad ! You'll never going to be a loser ! 😘😘😘😘 Love you and Peace
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In Conclusion showing people you have problem will create a negative vibes that want them to disappear or not calculate.
Am sorry but only Gad has the power to eliminate our negative vibes...
I feel like this 100% I try to help others too but I don't know what I'm doing most of the time. Showing I care is difficult especially when I don't want to step on someone's boundaries.
and i feel like sh*t too.
I'm dealing with exactly the same thing! I'm 21 and in my 3rd year and been dealing with it for a solid half a year. I don't really feel like I belong in the group anymore, but any time I'm needed I'm there for them, but when Ive needed them recently no ones been here.
And it really makes me feel selfish to even think about asking for some kind of attention back, it's silly as an adult. But when you live with these people and see them 24/7 it's hard to get away from. It constantly makes me feel like I'm not wanted or really good enough to be in the group. But hey I can see I'm not alone in this - makes it a little better right?