I found out my crush is gay (yay!) but what should I do?

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Alright, I've done that, here's what happened:
me: well, there's someone i like
him: oooh
someone from uni?
me: yeah
him: so are the feelings mutual?
me: idk, we haven't spoken much, so probs not haha
him: you never know
i fancy someone too
he's cute af
seems a bit shy though so we haven't spoken much either

I think he fancies someone else... :/
I think that someone might be you
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Reading this made me smile so much! It definitely sounds like he likes you
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Rim him or I will
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I wouldn't be so sure. The wink face is pretty suggestive of his interest. And IDK, it just doesn't seem right that he'd call someone else 'cute af' to you. If he was a close friend or something, then sure, friends do talk about stuff like that. Don't quote me on it, but I'm pretty sure he likes you too.
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I think that someone might be you
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Reading this made me smile so much! It definitely sounds like he likes you
Are you all for real?

There's no way he likes me. I'm so awkward and all I do is stare at him stupidly

I still haven't replied to his last messages (read them in notifications), what should I say?
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And think how much further forward you are compared to this time yesterday OP - happy Valentine’s Day 💝
Thank you! Happy Valentine's Day to everyone here too!

I did make some progress, but now he seems to like someone else...
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Yes, we are for real. There is most definitely way that he likes you! How about asking him if you know the person he likes?
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Are you all for real?

There's no way he likes me. I'm so awkward and all I do is stare at him stupidly

I still haven't replied to his last messages (read them in notifications), what should I say?
Be confident around himmmm. Ask if his willing to go on a date with you or if he wants to go to a cafe with you
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Yes, we are for real. There is most definitely way that he likes you! How about asking him if you know the person he likes?
That's a good one, I'll do that
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Be confident around himmmm. Ask if his willing to go on a date with you or if he wants to go to a cafe with you
I would but what if I'm misreading this and he says no! Or what if he says yes! It's gonna be so awkward
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But as you said, when he catches you looking at him, he's smiling and there's no way he would call someone else 'cute af' when you two aren't close- he's giving you a hint. He also said that he has a crush on someone without you asking if he does so... Could also try asking if you know his crush
I'd suggest subtly letting him know you're gay, like maybe drop a 'he' somewhere, he might not know you're gay
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I agree - def ask him if the person he likes is anyone you know..... I think it could be someone you know quite well 😉
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Don’t overthink this pleaseee. You’ll make it sound really badd and trust me it’ll go well is he said yes x

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I would but what if I'm misreading this and he says no! Or what if he says yes! It's gonna be so awkward
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So, quick update on the messaging thing:

me: do you think i know him?
him: yep
definitely
he's doing our course
noticed him during that mega silly course induction thing in freshers
me: is it that blond guy?
him: i'm gonna go to bed now
but like
i'll be hanging around the building before the tutorial tomorrow
might see you then? x

My brain is going :eek3::eek3::eek3:

Here's the thing. I'm doing a joint honours arts degree; few people, mostly girls. Most people couldn't be bothered showing up to this induction thing. In fact, I remember there were exactly three guys there: me, him, and some blond dude. Said blond dude doesn't 'seem a bit shy'. Which means...

I can't believe it tho! How could he possibly like me? He probs just thinks I'm fit and will soon change his mind when he finds out how awkward and inexperienced I am

Where do I go from here? Should I meet him tomorrow? What does the little x mean? My mum sends me those but a boy I barely know?
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Means he wants a cheeky snog before class
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Be braver!
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Honey it’s not the blond guy 🙄

Maybe suggest a coffee?
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OP how are things with him?

Dont tell me you are this tactless that you still cant tell he likes you?
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I haven't replied to his last messages. Not sure what to say

I do realise that it's me he likes, but I'm finding that so hard to believe. We barely know each other!

Anyway, the tutorial is at 11, so I'll get there a bit early to see him. The first time we're gonna talk in person :afraid: If I'm brave enough I'll suggest a coffee...
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I haven't replied to his last messages. Not sure what to say

I do realise that it's me he likes, but I'm finding that so hard to believe. We barely know each other!

Anyway, the tutorial is at 11, so I'll get there a bit early to see him. The first time we're gonna talk in person :afraid: If I'm brave enough I'll suggest a coffee...
Ah if he’s gonna get there early and you’re gonna get there early, you could drop him a message now and ask if he fancies a coffee before (or after) class. It would be a bit more private and less awkward than talking in front of your mates and his...
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omgg this is adorable - hows it going?
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