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Been told i'm ugly...

It's all in the title really... people have always picked on me for the one having the "big bum" or "big forehead" and it has shattered my confidence... i try to look decent but it never happens... i hate having photos taken because i always look pasty white and REALLY ugly.

ktnx.

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Reply 1

tris-

is this a question?
if you have a big bum, healthy diet and consistent exercise could help reduce the fat. you cant target your bum though.
it could also be genetics if youre african origin.

Reply 2

TeamBlueGravy

talk about a bad day

just joking. Forget what everyone says, as long as u feel confident with yourself, everyone normally takes note of the confident person.

Who cares what "people" think. Fight the Fight, Join the revolution!!

Reply 3

Henry007

Can I ask...have you kissed anyone?

Generally that's what I ask my friends who feel like you do. If there's people out there willing to kiss you, it can't be that bad :-)

Reply 4

osteec

have self confidence you need it to get through life. don't listen to other people. they don't know anything about you. it is you inside that matters!

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Henry007

Can I ask...have you kissed anyone?

Generally that's what I ask my friends who feel like you do. If there's people out there willing to kiss you, it can't be that bad :-)

No, never. I've never even hugged anyone.

Reply 6

TeamBlueGravy

Henry dude, if the answers "no", its not really helping LOL

Reply 7

inksplodge

If you've got a big forehead, a full fringe helps to hide it. I find that it helps, anyway :p:

Reply 8

MSB

Henry007

Can I ask...have you kissed anyone?

Generally that's what I ask my friends who feel like you do. If there's people out there willing to kiss you, it can't be that bad :-)

Doesn't help if they answer 'no' though, does it?
Quite a gamble, as it were.

OP - as has been said, it's only confidence that's the key, and that can be worked on quite easily, if you take it in steps.

Reply 9

tris-

well lets hang on a minute.
if her bum is big enough people can see it from a distance maybe shes got a weight problem? in which case, you need to sort it out.

Reply 10

hannah_dru

Have you tried counselling or CBT? I think it's all in your frame of mind.

Reply 11

funkypish

Anonymous

No, never. I've never even hugged anyone.

Reply 12

Henry007

kam_007

Henry dude, if the answers "no", its not really helping LOL

Haha I know I was midway through editing my post because I thought on :redface:

Well I've had friends who are pale and/or have big foreheads:
- Get a fringe?
- Spray tans?

Tbh if you're a nice enough person and get that across, most people are going to see past looks. I have friends who I think are more attractive just because they're wicked to chill out with.

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

tris-

well lets hang on a minute.
if her bum is big enough people can see it from a distance maybe shes got a weight problem? in which case, you need to sort it out.

I know i'm fat so no need to point out the obvious... it's not really a weight problem it's just my arse!

Reply 14

iamtheeggman

They may just be joking when they say stuff like that, yno like just friendly banter?
I know me and atleast two of my boy mates call eachother all sorts about our looks, i.e. i have a double chins and flabby arms. i know they don't mean it i'm far from fat though.

Obvs i don't know your situation but it could be that, alternatively i agree what the person above said - have confidence in yourself and looks and people pay attention to that more than anything.

And a final piece of hope (perhaps), have you not noticed that the ugly people usually end up with the fittest guy anyway so - score?! :smile:

Reply 15

tris-

Anonymous

I know i'm fat so no need to point out the obvious... it's not really a weight problem it's just my arse!

if you know youre fat then it sounds like youve got an issue with your self. try some healthy eating and cardio vascular exercise to shed some fat.

Reply 16

amypie

If you're unhappy... do something about it!!

Reply 17

hannah_dru

tris-

if you know youre fat then it sounds like youve got an issue with your self. try some healthy eating and cardio vascular exercise to shed some fat.

That doesn't sound like actually being fat to me. That just sounds like thinking that you're fat cos you have low confidence. Obviously I can't see the OP but from what she's said that's the impression I get.

Reply 18

Anonymous #2

Anonymous

No, never. I've never even hugged anyone.

I'll be honest i don't think i'm ugly, i'm nto amazing but i'm average.I wouldn't worry about not having kissed someone being a factor in whether you're attractive or not, i was 17 before i kissed anyone or had a boyfriend. obvs i dno how old you are but i'm guessing younger?

You just have to wait it out + someone will pop up and boost your confidence. :smile:

Reply 19

Anonymous #1

tris-

if you know youre fat then it sounds like youve got an issue with your self. try some healthy eating and cardio vascular exercise to shed some fat.