Saw an extremely handsom guy today. Am I gay? Watch

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This took place on my internship.

This happened on the first day. I'm walking toward the elevator, as I leave I see an absolute beauty of a man. Slicked back hair, sexy physique, beautiful eyes. He's literally a 10/10- I don't hand that out easily.

Then it got me thinking, how can women deny sex from that guy? Extremely handsome, rich(investment banker). This man literally has it all.

I guess what I'm asking is, does that make me gay? Acknowledging I literally met a 10/10. I think I'm straight. I'm extremely attracted to women. Hell, I even tried to watch gay porn to see if there was any arousal- absolutely none.
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This took place on my internship.

This happened on the first day. I'm walking toward the elevator, as I leave I see an absolute beauty of a man. Slicked back hair, sexy physique, beautiful eyes. He's literally a 10/10- I don't hand that out easily.

Then it got me thinking, how can women deny sex from that guy? Extremely handsome, rich(investment banker). This man literally has it all.

I guess what I'm asking is, does that make me gay? Acknowledging I literally met a 10/10, I even joked to my friend that I'd suck him off, did I subconsciously mean that? I think I'm straight. I'm extremely attracted to women. Hell, I even tried to watch gay porn to see if there was any arousal- absolutely none.
No of course not, we see competition all the time, and if the competition is good enough we don't get jealous we simply acknowledge it and worship the person. It's just a normal thing, you aren't attracted to them you just appreciate them for being a beautiful creature. It's like having a role model. I met someone like this, he was just a really good looking guy, I wasn't attracted to him I just knew he was good looking.
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I think it’s ok to think someone of the same gender is nice looking, I mean girls do it all the time.
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I don't think it makes you gay or bisexual to think in the way you did.
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You can appreciate beauty without being gay
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lol you can see someone is attractive without being gay
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This took place on my internship.

This happened on the first day. I'm walking toward the elevator, as I leave I see an absolute beauty of a man. Slicked back hair, sexy physique, beautiful eyes. He's literally a 10/10- I don't hand that out easily.

Then it got me thinking, how can women deny sex from that guy? Extremely handsome, rich(investment banker). This man literally has it all.

I guess what I'm asking is, does that make me gay? Acknowledging I literally met a 10/10, I even joked to my friend that I'd suck him off, did I subconsciously mean that? I think I'm straight. I'm extremely attracted to women. Hell, I even tried to watch gay porn to see if there was any arousal- absolutely none.
No it doesn't mean ur gay and even if you are there's nothing wrong with that. It's defo not odd/weird to think someone of the same sex is nice looking.
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just because you are straight does not mean you are blind to attractiveness/think men are ugly.
just like straight girls acknowledge that their friends are pretty lol
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No, you just have a keen eye and appreciation of beauty.
You'll likely appreciate artwork, architecture and jewellery in the same way.

I'm a woman who walked away from an ex just like that five years ago.
He was ambitious, hot, wealthy, charming and successful.
Also a controlling, sordid and highly opportunistic sociopath.
I was 19, he was in his 40s.
Learnt a valuable life lesson the hard way.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
This took place on my internship.

This happened on the first day. I'm walking toward the elevator, as I leave I see an absolute beauty of a man. Slicked back hair, sexy physique, beautiful eyes. He's literally a 10/10- I don't hand that out easily.

Then it got me thinking, how can women deny sex from that guy? Extremely handsome, rich(investment banker). This man literally has it all.

I guess what I'm asking is, does that make me gay? Acknowledging I literally met a 10/10, I even joked to my friend that I'd suck him off, did I subconsciously mean that? I think I'm straight. I'm extremely attracted to women. Hell, I even tried to watch gay porn to see if there was any arousal- absolutely none.
You answered your own question... You're not gay. I see beautiful women all the time, and while I can appreciate their beauty - it doesn't mean anything other than that.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
This took place on my internship.

This happened on the first day. I'm walking toward the elevator, as I leave I see an absolute beauty of a man. Slicked back hair, sexy physique, beautiful eyes. He's literally a 10/10- I don't hand that out easily.

Then it got me thinking, how can women deny sex from that guy? Extremely handsome, rich(investment banker). This man literally has it all.

I guess what I'm asking is, does that make me gay? Acknowledging I literally met a 10/10, I even joked to my friend that I'd suck him off, did I subconsciously mean that? I think I'm straight. I'm extremely attracted to women. Hell, I even tried to watch gay porn to see if there was any arousal- absolutely none.
Nah dude it's like when girls meet new girls, if they're a 10/10 they'll say 'she's so hot'. For example, the people in my corridor at uni knew found out who would be joining a vacant room in advance, and looked at her FB and all said that they thought she was fit. They're not lesbians tho. It's like if I (as a man), saw a handsome and/or muscular guy I just think 'he must get all the birds' and feel happy for him, and then I think nothing much of it.
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Aw you two will be such a cute couple I ship it!.
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Nah dude it's like when girls meet new girls, if they're a 10/10 they'll say 'she's so hot'. For example, the people in my corridor at uni knew found out who would be joining a vacant room in advance, and looked at her FB and all said that they thought she was fit. They're not lesbians tho. It's like if I (as a man), saw a handsome and/or muscular guy I just think 'he must get all the birds' and feel happy for him, and then I think nothing much of it.
i see what you're saying but this is different. i literally just met the sexiest man on earth. i walked past him again today and couldn't stop staring. i'd rather look at him than look at an attractive female. if im gay i might jusy kms....
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No, you just have a keen eye and appreciation of beauty.
You'll likely appreciate artwork, architecture and jewellery in the same way.

I'm a woman who walked away from an ex just like that five years ago.
He was ambitious, hot, wealthy, charming and successful.
Also a controlling, sordid and highly opportunistic sociopath.
I was 19, he was in his 40s.
Learnt a valuable life lesson the hard way.
YIKES! GOLD DIGGER ALERT BOYS.


thanks for your answer though.
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YIKES! GOLD DIGGER ALERT BOYS.


thanks for your answer though.
Lol.
I ended the relationship, cut off contact and have stayed single ever since.
My friends (human/canine/a few other animals), books and teddy bears are all the company I need.
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Lol.
I ended the relationship, cut off contact and have stayed single ever since.
My friends (human/canine/a few other animals), books and teddy bears are all the company I need.
That’s sad. At least you got out of there before it was too late. Hopefully you’ll find the right one for you soon. He’s out there somewhere
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Lol.
I ended the relationship, cut off contact and have stayed single ever since.
My friends (human/canine/a few other animals), books and teddy bears are all the company I need.
Yeah but that's just fake. Imagine being in a relationship with someone double your age,it just doesn't add up. You were clearly with him for the money, he found out and dumped you.
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Yeah but that's just fake. Imagine being in a relationship with someone double your age,it just doesn't add up. You were clearly with him for the money, he found out and dumped you.
No.
I ended the relationship because he had a secret hobby involving threesomes, sex workers and violent hardcore porn reenactments.
I've always worked, earned my own money and never claimed benefits.
I'm not religious, a feminist or a leech.

I'm only attracted to older guys, usually with at least a 15 year age gap.
Both my grandmothers were married as teenagers, my maternal grandmother chose a man more than twice her age.
I turned down a marriage proposal from the ex on my way out the door and four others since 2017.
My family don't divorce and I won't be the one to end that.
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No.
I ended the relationship because he had a secret hobby involving threesomes, sex workers and violent hardcore porn reenactments.
I've always worked, earned my own money and never claimed benefits.
I'm not religious, a feminist or a leech.

I'm only attracted to older guys, usually with at least a 15 year age gap.
Both my grandmothers were married as teenagers, my maternal grandmother chose a man more than twice her age.
I turned down a marriage proposal from the ex on my way out the door and four others since 2017.
My family don't divorce and I won't be the one to end that.
You're a textbook gold-digger. Don't try to sugarcoat it. I just hate seeing fakes.

You say you like older guys? I wonder why. They're usually more wealthy.

Anyways, stop responding. This isn't a bout you, it's about me. I also don't want to offend you further.

Sorry f or the awkward spacing, I'm running a script involving my s pace bar atm.
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no. nt even if u want to f them. it all matters about the feelings.
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