Do guys care about the size of vagina lips? Watch

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Ok so, this is quite an embarrassing post for me to write but Ive been constantly worried for the last 5+ years and I don’t know what to do! Basically im so self conscious because my inner labia hangs down way further than the outer labia (about an inch), one side is also longer than the other. I know that it’s not normal as I’ve watched shows like ‘naked attraction’ and none of them are at all like mine! I’m far to worried that a guy is gonna finding it gross so I still haven’t had sex (im 19) and I have actually ended things with multiple boys before it got to that stage due to being too worried I would be a turn off or he would find it gross. It doesn’t help that I’ve heard boys at uniaughing about girls as referring to vaginas as ‘ham sandwiches’. So basically, I’m just looking for an insight about how much guys actually care... would it put you off a girl? Thanks x
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There may be some guys who care but the vast majority won't . Some guys actually find it sexy. To be honest, most will actually be too excited to be with a girl to be put off by such things (or too worried about their own body to notice anything different about yours!).

And if it is of any consolation, my inner labia are very different sizes (one is barely noticeable and the other hangs out) and no one has ever commented on it. I don't even know if anyone has noticed, tbh.
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Aw what! 5+ years of confidence defeating worry about a non-issue! :eek:

What you have is a normal looking vulva. It's totally normal and common, being a 'contestant' on 'naked attraction' is not normal or common, so don't compare yourself. Nor is it normal to be a model/porn star.

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/body...e-vulva-labia/
https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/sexual-...pes-and-sizes/

Such worries about bodies are very normal particularly when you're younger, genitalia in particular as you don't get to see other peoples. So why not assume that yours are weird, ugly and will put off all partners.

Others things people are worry about on this site:
Breasts: Too big/small/nipples!/textured/saggy/solid/weird colour/uneven/smell/ugly/not like on tv, films, friends
Vaginas: Too loose/tight/labia uneven/long/short/textured/weird colour/smell/ugly/not like tv on, films, friends
Penises: Too long/short/thin/fat/curved/textured/weird colour/smell/ugly/not like on tv, films, friends
Testicles: Too small/big/textured/weird colour/uneven/smell/ugly/not like on tv, films, friends
Pubic hair: Too much/little/colour/shape...

Truth be told you're absolutely fine, as long as it's not causing you pain or discomfort and as long as there aren't sudden changes or anything that you find concerning. If there are - talk to your doctor!

So the good news is you're perfect and perfectly normal. The bad news is you've wasted so much energy being unkind to yourself. The best news is you've got your whole life to live and enjoy.
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Naked attraction is not real life, just people desperate to be on tv.
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A majority of guys really dont care. I doubt they would even notice. Trust me. Sucks you turned down those other fellas over that tho hope u let them off easy.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Ok so, this is quite an embarrassing post for me to write but Ive been constantly worried for the last 5+ years and I don’t know what to do! Basically im so self conscious because my inner labia hangs down way further than the outer labia (about an inch), one side is also longer than the other. I know that it’s not normal as I’ve watched shows like ‘naked attraction’ and none of them are at all like mine! I’m far to worried that a guy is gonna finding it gross so I still haven’t had sex (im 19) and I have actually ended things with multiple boys before it got to that stage due to being too worried I would be a turn off or he would find it gross. It doesn’t help that I’ve heard boys at uniaughing about girls as referring to vaginas as ‘ham sandwiches’. So basically, I’m just looking for an insight about how much guys actually care... would it put you off a girl? Thanks x
If you shave your pubic hair, it will not matter. A clean shaven vagina will turn any man on no matter how large your labia is.
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Ok so, this is quite an embarrassing post for me to write but Ive been constantly worried for the last 5+ years and I don’t know what to do! Basically im so self conscious because my inner labia hangs down way further than the outer labia (about an inch), one side is also longer than the other. I know that it’s not normal as I’ve watched shows like ‘naked attraction’ and none of them are at all like mine! I’m far to worried that a guy is gonna finding it gross so I still haven’t had sex (im 19) and I have actually ended things with multiple boys before it got to that stage due to being too worried I would be a turn off or he would find it gross. It doesn’t help that I’ve heard boys at uniaughing about girls as referring to vaginas as ‘ham sandwiches’. So basically, I’m just looking for an insight about how much guys actually care... would it put you off a girl? Thanks x
Sounds absolutely beautiful! I absolutely love long inner labia! Favorite thing about a woman to me. without long inner labia I find myself to be much less attracted. Embrace it! Be proud of it!
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