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so this is the wrong forum i think, however i wanted it to remain anonymous lol... let me paint you a picture.... its valentines night, everyone is out in town, me and my friends are quite drunk, i see a boy, this boy sees me, we kiss, we kiss some more, next thing, i was in a taxi going back to his house, we had sex (consensual). about 3 weeks later, brings me to this week, which is where the title kicks in. I hadnt got my period, so i went to boots in town on Friday after school and picked up a pregnancy test (bloody expensive they are as well), went to the tills and who was at the till... NONE OTHER THAN MY OLD ENGLISH TEACHER!! i say old, because she still works in my school, however is not my teacher anymore. she didnt clock the test at first, that is until i went over to the woman serving me, which just so happened to be the till next to the one this teacher was being served at. she looked over and asked how my day was, then looked down to the desk bit, and saw the test i have never wanted the ground to swallow me up so much in all my life. she sort of went quiet mid question, looked at me sympathetically, then my phone started ringing so i quickly payed the woman, and ran off. shes emailed me saying she wants to see me this week, do i lie and say it wasnt for me, or should i just tell the truth. The test said i wasn't pregant so not only did i 'waste' money, but ive also completely embarrassed not only myself but her too! What should i say?? what should i do??
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also, please don't lecture me saying how stupid I was, I already know all this, and have already gotten multiple lectures off my friends
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Tell her the truth - you took it and it was negative. She will just be wanting to make sure that you're okay.
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she has no right to ask you,its ur life if u wanna be a jbag
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Well you went to get a test rather than come on here panicking before knowing anything, so you are taking appropriate action.

It isn’t really her business, so if you don’t wish to discuss it with her then tell her it is personal, or lie if you wish. She probably just wants to offer you support so be polite if you decline.
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Just be honest about it. Chances are she just wants to be supportive and since the test was negative there's nothing to support so you can just put it behind you.
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A member of staff has certain obligations towards students at their school, regardless of whether or not they teach the student themselves.

Safeguarding - https://www.gov.uk/topic/schools-col...rding-children

Just be honest.
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How old are you?
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(Original post by sinfonietta)
Tell her the truth - you took it and it was negative. She will just be wanting to make sure that you're okay.
I agree with this ^

As embarrassing as it may have been, I think she’s just looking out for you. If you don’t want to meet up with her just reply to her email and let her know you’re fine.
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If anything, you could be buying for someone else.

Nonetheless, it's aboslutely NONE of her business. She has no right to email you saying she wants to see you over it. Maybe she's trying to help you out and assure you (since she probably understands the hardship of being a teen mum) that things will be alright and give advice, but she does not have to intertwine and you can use this against her. She's a teacher, not your mum.

It's perhaps nice of her but it's none of her business. It's not exactly unheard of to have sex, either.
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She isn't your teacher anymore she can't be getting involved in your business unless you want to speak to them. They could offer you advice and contact to different services which could help you.
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Repeat the test in another 5 days if you haven’t had your regular period, as you may have tested too early for a positive result. And if you’re old enough to have sex, you’re old enough to handle difficult conversations with adults who have your interests at heart.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
so this is the wrong forum i think, however i wanted it to remain anonymous lol... let me paint you a picture.... its valentines night, everyone is out in town, me and my friends are quite drunk, i see a boy, this boy sees me, we kiss, we kiss some more, next thing, i was in a taxi going back to his house, we had sex (consensual). about 3 weeks later, brings me to this week, which is where the title kicks in. I hadnt got my period, so i went to boots in town on Friday after school and picked up a pregnancy test (bloody expensive they are as well), went to the tills and who was at the till... NONE OTHER THAN MY OLD ENGLISH TEACHER!! i say old, because she still works in my school, however is not my teacher anymore. she didnt clock the test at first, that is until i went over to the woman serving me, which just so happened to be the till next to the one this teacher was being served at. she looked over and asked how my day was, then looked down to the desk bit, and saw the test i have never wanted the ground to swallow me up so much in all my life. she sort of went quiet mid question, looked at me sympathetically, then my phone started ringing so i quickly payed the woman, and ran off. shes emailed me saying she wants to see me this week, do i lie and say it wasnt for me, or should i just tell the truth. The test said i wasn't pregant so not only did i 'waste' money, but ive also completely embarrassed not only myself but her too! What should i say?? what should i do??


Why if she still works at your school is she moonlighting as a cashier?
It doesn't make any sense, plus it's a large large pay cut for her..........
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She doesn't need to know but feel free to tell her the truth if you want to. To me, it doesn't sound like you will get in trouble or anything. Also, make sure to use a condom.
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Lol, she doesn’t, she was shopping in boots and was being served at the same time I was
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Why if she still works at your school is she moonlighting as a cashier?
It doesn't make any sense, plus it's a large large pay cut for her..........
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so this is the wrong forum i think, however i wanted it to remain anonymous lol... let me paint you a picture.... its valentines night, everyone is out in town, me and my friends are quite drunk, i see a boy, this boy sees me, we kiss, we kiss some more, next thing, i was in a taxi going back to his house, we had sex (consensual). about 3 weeks later, brings me to this week, which is where the title kicks in. I hadnt got my period, so i went to boots in town on Friday after school and picked up a pregnancy test (bloody expensive they are as well), went to the tills and who was at the till... NONE OTHER THAN MY OLD ENGLISH TEACHER!! i say old, because she still works in my school, however is not my teacher anymore. she didnt clock the test at first, that is until i went over to the woman serving me, which just so happened to be the till next to the one this teacher was being served at. she looked over and asked how my day was, then looked down to the desk bit, and saw the test i have never wanted the ground to swallow me up so much in all my life. she sort of went quiet mid question, looked at me sympathetically, then my phone started ringing so i quickly payed the woman, and ran off. shes emailed me saying she wants to see me this week, do i lie and say it wasnt for me, or should i just tell the truth. The test said i wasn't pregant so not only did i 'waste' money, but ive also completely embarrassed not only myself but her too! What should i say?? what should i do??
Tell her the truth if she asks. You had consensual sex. You were actually being responsible in checking for pregnancy! She won't tell anyone that you know- that is for sure -but she may want to know that you are being safe!
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Well this is a (not so) bloody mess, isn't it?
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She just wants to know you're ok. Tbh don't tell her you didn't use protection, just say you were safe but when you were late you panicked but everything was negative.
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Thanks everyone, I didn’t end up going into school today because I was sick last night (I hope it’s food poisoning:confused:). But looks a bit suspicious if she asks my friends where I am lol
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How old are you?
It's part of her duty of care to do so. Just be honest with her, the test was negative so you have nothing to worry about
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