is 15 too early to have sex Watch

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You don't have to love someone to have sex with them. But the bigger issue with your post is no she won't end up on the sex offenders register for having sex at 15.
My apologies, my school told me that people who had underage sex or sent nudes get on the young sex offenders list.
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The fact you have to ask the question shows the answer is yes.
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I lost my virginity at the age of 16 and I felt that it was way too soon, It made me feel ashamed and guilty. Others lost their virginity at that very same age and felt happy and fine. Do whatever you feel ready to do! As long as it always remains consensual and you do not feel pressured, I don't see anything wrong with it.
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just my parents are quite strict and might not want this to happen. im a girl. do people on here think that 15 is too early to lose virginity and also when did you all lose yours? thanks
Yes its too young. Honestly anything under 16 is too young. However sex doesnt need to mean much to you, its never meant a huge deal to me. I lost my virginity at 18, mostly because anxiety stopped me from ever doing it before but also because i felt satisfied with myself and didnt feel the need to share my body. Only you really know if youre ready. But yeh honestly no need to rush
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You don’t have to be married to or love someone to have sex with them lmao. Sex is just an act, it’s like saying you can’t kiss or hug anyone until you’re married. That being said, OP is way too young to be having sex.
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That is way too young. I recommend waiting until you are married or at least 16 or preferably 18+. You don’t won’t to make a decision you will regret for the rest of your life. Regret is a horrible emotion. Are you sure you love this person. Sex is an act of love between two people. It should be a special moment shared with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. I advise you to wait until marriage so you can be sure you will spend the rest of your life with this person. Also, if you get caught you can end up on the sex offenders list. Your brain is still developing and whatever seems right now may not in the future. If you are having sex you have to ask yourself am I ready to have a baby. Contraception can fail. If you can’t support a baby you shouldn’t be having sex in my opinion I know some people won’t agree (abortion etc). However there are other risks such as STIs and you need to be able to deal with those things. If you did get one would you be able to access healthcare without telling your parents? I know most people won’t agree with those things but ultimately I urge you to wait until you are at lease 16 if not older or married. Please think this decision through and there is support available if you are being pressured by your partner. Think wisely and have safe sex. Condoms, birth control etc.
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How do pplice find out if you had sex early?
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Firstly, haven’t yet myself, but you gotta make sure its legal and all first. Don’t wanna go to jail.
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Its 100% a personal thing, and I think you're at the age its something you can consider, although its important you do it when you feel ready and with somebody you love.

I lost my viriginity at a similar age to you, I know other people who lost their virginity younger than that, and at a considerably older age.

I think its also worth bearing in mind that if somebody you're with is pushing you to have sex with them, their intentions may not be what you percieve them to be. Although, I don't want to paint every guy with the same brush, I do know a few girls who's boyfriends told them how much they loved them and how much they wanted to consumate that. Only to find that a few weeks after having had sex with them, that same boy was nowhere to be seen. Just be wary...
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just my parents are quite strict and might not want this to happen. im a girl. do people on here think that 15 is too early to lose virginity and also when did you all lose yours? thanks
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I mean schoolchildren are too young for it but that doesn't stop UK law from putting the age of consent at a ridiculous 16. Sensible people wait until at least 18, when they've left school and have gone to uni/got a job.
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If you're worried about what your parents think about you having sex then you shouldn't be having it. That's a very childish thought about a very adult act.
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Lots of 15 year olds have sex. Whilst I think it's important to be safe and point out the legal situation I think this depends on the people involved. If you are in a relationship and in love then I'm OK with it. I think it's perfectly understandable to care what your parents or other people may think, but this is down to you. I actually think coming on here and discussing it shows maturity and that you are thinking things through properly. There are 15 year olds who are mature an ready and 20 year olds who clearly aren't.

Don't get pushed into anything, but if you want to do it and are ready then crack on. Age is secondary.
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just my parents are quite strict and might not want this to happen. im a girl. do people on here think that 15 is too early to lose virginity and also when did you all lose yours? thanks
Too early. underage as well.
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I think given how much impact your parents have on your life at that age, it isn’t immature at all!

Her parents are her primary provider of adult advice and information. Of course she’s going to be concerned about what they think! They’re likely to be far wiser than she is and any rational person would do the same... the fact she’s on here asking for a second opinion and she isn’t arrogant enough to think she knows best. Demonstrates maturity, not immaturity!
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If you're worried about what your parents think about you having sex then you shouldn't be having it. That's a very childish thought about a very adult act.
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