Why does it hurt when I finger myself?

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Oyal
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Hello,
When a girl fingers herself with two fingers (index and middle fingers), does the hymen breaks, tears at first?
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Laila R
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I am only 13 and I have started to finger myself, it felt so good at first but then when i started to get used to it i got so interested to watch porn videos and finger my self at the same time.I have not fingered my self before but when this guy told me to i did it and it just felt so good and i just wish i had a boyfriends because you can also have the same feeling there.
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i have the exact same problem have you heard anything
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I am 12 and have tried it and just don’t know what to do like I have tried putting my fingers in and it felt so horrible and it didn’t go very far I don’t even know if I’m putting them in the right place-It’s so annoying because I want to do it but I don’t know what to do and it just feels horrible have any advice
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I have tried to finger myself and put fingers in but I don’t know where to put them like the whole I see when I look is so tiny I can’t even fit my pinkie in their I don’t know what to do I have tried to put my finger in and it wasn’t nice at all it felt horrible what shall I do
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Maybe try a Vibrator not one you stick in your vagina just one you put over it. Im 14 and have a vibrator i use it alot. It feels very good. One time i was about 9 and i sticked my finger in me and it bled for a bit but then it stopped. so the next day i did it and i was 9 so i didnt have lube and stuff so i used my saliva and it started to hurt so i asked my mom for a back massauger and she gave it to me and i used it on my Vagina. I love you and hope this works!
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(Original post by Dndmnsnsns)
I am 12 and have tried it and just don’t know what to do like I have tried putting my fingers in and it felt so horrible and it didn’t go very far I don’t even know if I’m putting them in the right place-It’s so annoying because I want to do it but I don’t know what to do and it just feels horrible have any advice
Watch Porn it helps alot and use lube if u dont have any just use you spit. it might sound nasty but it feels great
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i want to finger myself but i dont know what part of myself is my clit can u help me with this
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Ive tried but my finger wont go in
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(Original post by bhvis7428)
Ive tried but my finger wont go in
do you relax yourself ?
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i try to relax as much as i possibly can it just wont go
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(Original post by bhvis7428)
i try to relax as much as i possibly can it just wont go
how old are you?

If you've just started puberty, it'll take time for you to become fully ready/it to become easier to enter.

Do you have a bf, he could enter his fingers in, it may feel nicer?
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where at do i place my finger in my vergina whenu frist go in the whole to get me into that ooh yeah situation?plz awnser this question before 9:00 tonight thank you sincerely your friend ,Chloe
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im a vergion how do i do this right
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Well I’m 15 and I can fit 4 easily so idk if that’s normal or not (I’m a Virgin btw) try spreading your legs more and different positions.
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I feel you I just did my first finger list nigjt felt good I can almost go all the way in with one
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Last night I fingered my self it felt some what good and a little pain I only did one finger half way so today I did a laying down position and I relaxed and slowly inserted my finger all the way this time I bled for a second hope this helps you achieve pleasure
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hi
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I'm a virgin who has recently began to finger myself. I've always just rubbed my clit and it's felt good, but I've always been afraid to have sex in case it hurts, so decided I would use a dildo/finger myself so I'm not so tight when it happens. I bought a dildo, but it was just too big to go in. A few weeks ago I inserted two fingers inside of my vagina for the first time, all the way in, and I bled a bit but not for long. This was the first time I got my fingers all the way in, and felt like I was breaking through some sort of barrier, so I assume I broke my hymen. I tried fingering myself a second time today, and used lube, and my finger went in all the way again with no difficulty or no bleeding. But when I inisert my second finger, it just feels uncomfortable and painful to begin with. When my fingers are finally in, it just feels super tight and there's no pleasure. Is this normal? I'm afraid to try my dildo if it's painful with two fingers, and I don't know what to do to make it better. Please help!
started 2 months ago i use one finger and do my g spot but i try to put in tow and i force them in the just don't and my lube isnt here yet i use my own
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Well ur pussy has to get used to something bigger than ur finger so if you are just using ur finger u only open it up that much an u stay that tight
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