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Since guys never seem to approach me, probably because I am not super good looking. I'm sort of intimidated by this thought as I know for a fact that I am not particularly attractive; if I were hot, I would have no qualms about approaching dudes lol. I'm not sure how to go about this. The guys on my course/societies (so guys who I see regularly) are all in established groups and as long as they are decent looking, have literal harems surrounding them. So my only option really is to approach random guys around Uni. But don't know how? If I ask for a piece of paper, and then follow up with "also what's your name?" that would just be hella weird and obvious... how do I do this? I also am very afraid of rejection haha.
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Walk over, say hi, and make conversation about something relevant to your course/society. It's really that simple.
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(Original post by sinfonietta)
Walk over, say hi, and make conversation about something relevant to your course/society. It's really that simple.
That would seem really weird, just cruising up to a stranger and suddenly talking about my course, societies etc lol!
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(Original post by sinfonietta)
Walk over, say hi, and make conversation about something relevant to your course/society. It's really that simple.
Can the same be done with approaching girls?
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Can the same be done with approaching girls?
I suppose, but it would be a little odd too 🤔
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I suppose, but it would be a little odd too 🤔
Why do you think it would be odd?
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Why do you think it would be odd?
It would Be odd if any random person walked up to me and went “hi, my name is dave, I study chemistry. What do you study? Also, I’m in baking society.

I would think that they were trying to sell me something lmao
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I don't think there's going to be a non-odd way of approaching a random guy at uni lmao, but I'm sure there's a way around this without being hella weird and awkward. Is there anyone in particular you have your eye on?
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Since guys never seem to approach me, probably because I am not super good looking. I'm sort of intimidated by this thought as I know for a fact that I am not particularly attractive; if I were hot, I would have no qualms about approaching dudes lol. I'm not sure how to go about this. The guys on my course/societies (so guys who I see regularly) are all in established groups and as long as they are decent looking, have literal harems surrounding them. So my only option really is to approach random guys around Uni. But don't know how? If I ask for a piece of paper, and then follow up with "also what's your name?" that would just be hella weird and obvious... how do I do this? I also am very afraid of rejection haha.
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