How do you know?

You could just ask him instead of trying to figure out how he feels...

thought girls don't like to do that

i could but that would be giving the wrong signals off!! i dont like the first guy, hes a really cool friend and the second one im not sure if i like him or not. plus hes my flat mate and it would be akward if things didnt work out... just trying to figure things out for me so i dont give them the wrong impression!

I just wrote an e-mail to ask a girl out. Now, I'm feeling all depressed just in case she reject me.

Take me for instance. I can't get myself to the point of telling the girl that I like her a lot without the help of alcohol. On the assumption that you are not allowed to drink in your lecture (unless you are doing History of Maths in Cambridge like my mate) then, the one who likes you will get nervous. When I get nervous, I hold back my real feelings. And avoiding eye contact is common. If you think he likes you a lot, then try not to get onto him too strongly. He just might get scared and become nervous. I do that from time to time, whether I like the girl or not.

If you don't feel the tingling sensation then you shouldn't even be thinking about it.

what should you do if you are desperate for a girl but she doesnt fancy you?

what should you do if you are desperate for a girl but she doesnt fancy you?

good luck with that girl you asked out im sure she'l say yes!

im not trying to get onto him too stronly, i like him yes, but as a friend or more im not sure, ill try figure out my feelings for him first then decide i guess

what should you do if you are desperate for a girl but she doesnt fancy you?

with one of them i do feel a tingling sensation... but im not sure if it will last

Asking her out via email? Interesting...

are you sure she doesnt fancy you? if yes then just move on, she isnt worth the time
if no find out first.

Hi

You're quite new at uni so how can you form relationships at this stage? Just be his friend and see what happens in the future..... If chemistry works for both of you then it's all good - if not, then it doesn't matter.

Thanks. I'll thank you again if she says yes on Tuesday.

oh i dont want a relationship, i just want to know whether they like me or not so i know how to act round them!


no need to thank me! jus be happy!

Do what I just did. Send an e-mail and ask the question straight. Caution, can cause mild depression.

no she definitely doesn't like me.

and I asked her out three years ago and said no, I was really depressed for half a year, but I still really like her until now, don't really know why.

Em... this is what everyone worries about. The only way to find out is to spend a bit more time with him. I can't think of any other better ways. Anyone else?

no she definitely doesn't like me.

and I asked her out three years ago and said no, I was really depressed for half a year, but I still really like her until now, don't really know why.