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Okay, so I have been sleeping with someone for the past 2 months, he said he has feelings for me but does not want a relationship but does not want me to leave or move on.... what do I do
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Okay, so I have been sleeping with someone for the past 2 months, he said he has feelings for me but does not want a relationship but does not want me to leave or move on.... what do I do
How should we know? Are you okay with not having a relationship? If not, leave and move on. If you are and you like the way things are now and are okay for it to go on until he finds someone he likes better, do whatever. He's told you what he is prepared to do, now you have to deal with it.
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I think that you should try and move on cos he is just using you for sex and you want to have a proper relationship with someone
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When I move on, he find out and has an argument with me all the time! I’ve blocked him on everything but he still manages to contact me through his friendship
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How should we know? Are you okay with not having a relationship? If not, leave and move on. If you are and you like the way things are now and are okay for it to go on until he finds someone he likes better, do whatever. He's told you what he is prepared to do, now you have to deal with it.
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Okay, so I have been sleeping with someone for the past 2 months, he said he has feelings for me but does not want a relationship but does not want me to leave or move on.... what do I do
He wants you for casual sex. So the question is what do you want? If you don't want this then you need to stop! Up to you.
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But if I move on he doesn’t like it
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I think that you should try and move on cos he is just using you for sex and you want to have a proper relationship with someone
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If he doesn't want a relationship but he's claiming he has feelings I'm quite sure he's using you to satisfy his own needs. I think you should walk away. It all comes down to how much you think you're worth and if you're okay with being treated like that and knowing that he can go and sleep with whoever he wants apart from you because there isn't a commitment with a relationship then it's up to you to decide how you feel about that... But personally...I wouldn't have it
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Okay, so I have been sleeping with someone for the past 2 months, he said he has feelings for me but does not want a relationship but does not want me to leave or move on.... what do I do
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Okay, so I have been sleeping with someone for the past 2 months, he said he has feelings for me but does not want a relationship but does not want me to leave or move on.... what do I do
You leave and move on if you are not happy with what he is suggesting. His feelings are clearly just sexual and to have sex at his convenience without bothering about your feelings. It is worth pointing out that if you are wanting a longterm committed relationship with a guy them you really have to date the guy more slowly and without physical intimacy so that you can find out much more about the guy and whether he is a boy or a man.
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