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For example.

If I respond to his text after 25 minutes of him sending to me.
He’ll respond after the next 25 minutes.
If I respond to that in 10 minutes. He responds in 10.
If I respond in 1hr... you get the drift.

I have noticed in the last few days it has gone to our responses being 1hr apart to 5-15 minutes apart.. still, it’s TOO precise to say it’s ‘coincidental’.

Any opinions?
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Maybe he doesn’t want to seem keen ?
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Maybe he doesn’t want to seem keen ?
Hmm, interesting..& would make sense. He used to text me everyday for a month, then stopped. We have continued to hung out over the months

He has tries to make moves, although I postponed them as I wasn’t ready during those times or it just came across as sleezy. Could it be he still has interest but lacks confidence because I have turned down his previous moves and thus doesn’t want to look too keen?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
For example.

If I respond to his text after 25 minutes of him sending to me.
He’ll respond after the next 25 minutes.
If I respond to that in 10 minutes. He responds in 10.
If I respond in 1hr... you get the drift.

I have noticed in the last few days it has gone to our responses being 1hr apart to 5-15 minutes apart.. still, it’s TOO precise to say it’s ‘coincidental’.

Any opinions?
It means that you're overthinking.
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Most likely coincidence.

In the small chance that it's deliberate it means he is weirdly obsessive and has far too much time on his hands. I'd run.
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(Original post by MWills99)
It means that you're overthinking.
I will take this on board but it seems too coincidentalll.
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Most likely coincidence.

In the small chance that it's deliberate it means he is weirdly obsessive and has far too much time on his hands. I'd run.
Thanks for the response.

It just seems too coincidental to be nothing, but Ok 😅
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Maybe he is thinking the same as you!!!

I think you're overthinking it
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ask yourself why you’re replying after intervals, and why you’re counting, you’re probably doing the same thing
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ask yourself why you’re replying after intervals, and why you’re counting, you’re probably doing the same thing
-I’m typically not the greatest texter.
-All i’ve had for the last year is ‘Why don’t you text back more/ frequently’ from multiple people, so i’ve become used to looking at the whole ‘last seen,read, message sent’ culture thingy.
-I notice, because I have an interest in him & have noticed a change in the frequency of the texts. It used to be: everyday for a month.Then Not at all/sketchy texts. Now this.

I can often tell when people are busy/replying as and when they can.. with this, I have noticed a pattern ... that’s all.
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